We need to talk about what’s happening between Black Men and Black Women. I’m noticing that there seems to be a growing rift between the genders, a great deal of resentment and hostility that’s getting out of control. But don’t worry, I have solutions! 

The issues have been going on for years and it’s getting progressively worse. From the “Color Purple” to “What’s Love Got to Do with it” and even in the 2000s with Tyler Perry’s Madea films…it appears we black men are simply not acting right. We’re players. We’re dusty. We hump everything that moves. We’re not making 6 figures. We’re not keeping up with the education and professional careers of women. We shirk out on our responsibilities, making a whole bunch of babies and never sticking around to take care of them. We’re told to do better, do better, do better! And of course, one of the worst things black men do that provokes all kinds of ire…is date and marry women of another race.

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Points Discussed:

• Men Need to Do Better – @1:40
• The Black Therapist Talks Down to Men – @3:42
• The Lack of Compassion – @7:15
• Do Men and Women Know what We Want from Each Other? – @8:52
• The Nice Guys (Tupac) Saw Bad Boys Getting the Girls
• What if What We Want Goes Against What God Wants? – @12:04
• “Accepted” Diversity in Black Culture/Takeover of Hip Hop – @13:54
• Black Male Entertainers Have Been Dictating the Culture – @16:19
• The Problem with Average Men Finally Speaking Up – @18:36
• Accepting the Consequences of Who You Choose to Be – @21:35
• Are Men Allowed to Have a Preference? – @24:59
• Blaming Your Skin Color Because You Can’t Change It – @27:09
• Intimidated by “Strong Black Women” – @29:18
• Still Enslaved: Vote/Behave/Date BECAUSE You’re Black – @32:49
• Why do Men Want “Submission” from their Wives? – @34:03
• Men Who Want Sex Before Marriage Are WRONG – @36:06
• Can we Say Anything Positive to Say About Each Other – @39:36
• The Solution to All Our Problems is our Return to Christ – 42:20
• Beyonce’s Influence and the Satanic Source of the Enmity – @46:14