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Redemption: Why Should Millennials and Gen-Z Care about This?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on September 18, 2022
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Sometimes when more scholarly Christians toss around words like “Redemption” or “Sanctification” it can be a bit difficult to comprehend or understand what that looks like or what it is. What’s so appealing about it? Why should I care?

Seriously…when I was a kid, my parents used to talk about the “kingdom of heaven.” Then, I looked around the church and thought to myself, “No, Thank You!” That’s because I couldn’t understand what the Kingdom of Heaven was. Back then, they made it seem like “heaven” was this place where there was nothing but a bunch of stiff, pious, monks and nuns who don’t really do anything interesting.

It’s like being back in Advanced Algebra. When I asked when I would ever need to use things like the Quadratic Formula in real life? The teacher didn’t have an answer. And since I saw no benefit, I wasn’t motivated to learn. I didn’t care about getting better beyond that which was required to pass the class because…what’s the point? 

I think it’s the same with concepts like “Redemption” or “Sanctification”. Now, to be completely honest. I was prompted to write about Redemption and encouraged by another website called, SigmaFrame. You should check it out, because Jack’s an awesome intellectual and the comments sections are always full of thinkers I’ve come to have a tremendous amount of respect for. 

But after much reflection and ample prayer…I asked myself, who do I want to reach? Who’s my audience? Other knowledgeable Christians who are already striving to do what’s good in God’s eyes? I don’t think so.

Instead, my aim has always been on those who call themselves Christians but don’t know what Christ taught. I also target the agnostics who are on the fence, and the Christians who are indifferent towards the Truth because of terrible experiences they may have had with Christianity. If my aim is to help the layman to “embrace” the truth, I believe we have to talk to them at their level. So here goes… 

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The Growing Enmity between Black Men and Black Women 

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 27, 2022
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We need to talk about what’s happening between Black Men and Black Women. I’m noticing that there seems to be a growing rift between the genders, a great deal of resentment and hostility that’s getting out of control. But don’t worry, I have solutions! 

The issues have been going on for years and it’s getting progressively worse. From the “Color Purple” to “What’s Love Got to Do with it” and even in the 2000s with Tyler Perry’s Madea films…it appears we black men are simply not acting right. We’re players. We’re dusty. We hump everything that moves. We’re not making 6 figures. We’re not keeping up with the education and professional careers of women. We shirk out on our responsibilities, making a whole bunch of babies and never sticking around to take care of them. We’re told to do better, do better, do better! And of course, one of the worst things black men do that provokes all kinds of ire…is date and marry women of another race.

Click this Link to see the Recorded Youtube Video of this essay:

Points Discussed:

  • Men Need to Do Better – @1:40
  • The Black Therapist Talks Down to Men – @3:42
  • The Lack of Compassion – @7:15
  • Do Men and Women Know what We Want from Each Other? – @8:52
  • The Nice Guys (Tupac) Saw Bad Boys Getting the Girls
  • What if What We Want Goes Against What God Wants? – @12:04
  • “Accepted” Diversity in Black Culture/Takeover of Hip Hop – @13:54
  • Black Male Entertainers Have Been Dictating the Culture – @16:19
  • The Problem with Average Men Finally Speaking Up – @18:36
  • Accepting the Consequences of Who You Choose to Be – @21:35
  • Are Men Allowed to Have a Preference? – @24:59
  • Blaming Your Skin Color Because You Can’t Change It – @27:09
  • Intimidated by “Strong Black Women” – @29:18
  • Still Enslaved: Vote/Behave/Date BECAUSE You’re Black – @32:49
  • Why do Men Want “Submission” from their Wives? – @34:03
  • Men Who Want Sex Before Marriage Are WRONG – @36:06
  • Can we Say Anything Positive to Say About Each Other – @39:36
  • The Solution to All Our Problems is our Return to Christ – 42:20
  • Beyonce’s Influence and the Satanic Source of the Enmity – @46:14
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Are Lolo Jones and Venus Williams Cautionary Tales to Young Women?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 13, 2022
Posted in: Food for Thought, News and Updates, romance. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . 1 Comment

This one goes out to all the Christians struggling to find a mate in today’s twisted dating culture.

Points Discussed:

  • Why would a Woman Want a Family?
  • The Difficulty of Being a Virgin in your 40s – @2:02
  • Godly Men Don’t Care about Riches – @3:41
  • Blaming Men for the Consequences of Your Decisions – @5:25
  • Women are Prioritizing their Careers over Family – @6:55
  • Being Past Child-Bearing Age – @9:48
  • I would’ve Respected Lolo if She took Accountability – @11:19
  • Beauty Fades, so Capitalize on It – @12:14
  • Lolo Jones Needs to Teach (warn) Younger Women – @13:12
  • Most Christians Don’t Practice Celibacy? – @13:38
  • Women Have More Dating Power than They Care to Admit – @15:39
  • Godly Women Trust in What God Says, over what the World Says – @16:28
  • Would I date a 304 who Repented? – @17:32

List of Bible Scriptures about that talk about Having Children if You’re Not Married – https://www.openbible.info/topics/having_children_outside_of_marriage

“Godly Men Don’t Care About Money – A Theocratic Essay” – https://stageinthesky.com/2019/10/16/godly-men-dont-care-about-money-a-theocratic-essay/

The Follies of King Saul – Lessons of Faith and Patience

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 7, 2022
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I’m almost done with my third reading of 1 Samuel and I had to get my thoughts down about King Saul, the first King of Israel.

There’s so many lessons here that we can apply to our own lives, in today’s modern world. Mainly, the importance of patience and obeying God’s commandments even in the face of overwhelming pressure and anxiety.

Points Discussed:
Modern-Day Christians Want God to Help Them Right Away?
Why Some Humans Prefer Human Leadership over God’s Leadership – @1:20
Lack of Patience Under Intense Pressure – @3:48
Saul Failed with the Amalekites – @5:22
Obeying God’s Commandments is Better than Sacrifices – @7:18
If God Doesn’t Answer Your Prayers, Will You Reject God? – @8:32
Saul Relied on Mediums – @10:10

Have Black Men (or Single Men in General) Abandoned the Church?  

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 5, 2022
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Is it true that Black Men have “abandoned the church”? Clearly, there are still black men going to church. It’s not like you’ll walk into one and NOT see a black guy.  

But from watching the pastors on Jason Whitlock’s show and hearing Kevin Samuels over the past few years, there does seem to be this perception that “black men have given up on the churches”. I thought this was strange. And personally, I’d have no way of knowing whether any of this is true…because *chuckles nervously* as a black guy, I don’t go to church. 

First off, I want to make it clear that I don’t think churches, religious assemblies, and congregations are bad. I truly believe church and congregations are great and amazing events. The Old Testament taught that God loves assemblies. So, being that I’m a Christian…why don’t I go to one? 

The issues I’m going to bring up may be reasons why other men have stopped going and we’re just too embarrassed to admit it. I haven’t seen anyone else address or mention the MAIN reason why I personally don’t go…So here goes… 

THE CHURCH HAS CAVED TO MODERN WOKE IDEOLOGY – 

Let’s begin by addressing the common reasons I heard about why Black Men have stopped going to the church. Mainly, the sentiment is that the message, the pastors and ministers, have stopped preaching the Truth. Instead, the “Truth” is being watered down to walk lock-step with today’s woke ideologies. And in turn, they’re catering to women, telling women what they want to hear, instead of what the Bible actually says. 

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Solutions to Problems in the Black Community – Jason Whitlock Criticism

Posted by Rock Kitaro on July 23, 2022
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Recently, Jason Whitlock received a letter from a woman where she criticized him for talking about the problems in the Black Community, but not coming up with solutions. So, I had to get some thoughts down. Because I don’t believe for one second that she’s actually looking for solutions. She’s looking to shame Jason into silence so wickedness can continue. 

What I’m going to say is going to sound shameful by today’s standards. People will think that I’m an awful person or I’m a self-hating Black. But I’ve been holding it in for a long time. So here goes.

I’m not a fan of today’s Black Culture…and by Black Culture, I’m talking about the stereotypes, the mainstream lifestyles, behaviors, and mindsets promoted by today’s black entertainers and cultural leaders.

When I heard the lady’s criticism of Jason Whitlock, I literally stopped everything while getting ready for work to record a video about it. I had to.

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Why Good Men Can’t Stay Silent – The Roe v. Wade Decision

Posted by Rock Kitaro on June 25, 2022
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In the wake of Roe v Wade being overturned by the Supreme Court, many Youtubers were asking their followers (mostly black men) what they think. And sadly…what I’ve been seeing is this notion of “we gotta stay silent.”

This isn’t the first time I’ve heard such sentiments. Comedians have been preaching it to their audiences for years. “When it comes to abortion, we men need to shut the eff up” I believe Chappelle said, which was followed by raucous applause.

This was the comment from a Youtuber on the topic of Roe v Wade being overturned, “I’ve noticed when it comes to black women bodies and their sisterhood it’s best to say quiet fellas . All we can do is wrap it up and avoid a 18-year problem.”

Honestly, after seeing what’s been going on and recognizing the need for Men to actually step up and lead…I had to respond with this: “We can’t stay silent, bro. Unchecked immoral behavior is what’s led to the decline of our culture, society, and the increase of black children being born out of wedlock. We need to speak up. Some women need to be told something other than what stupid ideologues have been feeding them. We need to step up!”

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Why Men Don’t Care about “Strong and Independent”

Posted by Rock Kitaro on June 11, 2022
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I apologize if the title sounds insulting. But I promise you…what I’m about to reveal is a bunch of embarrassing insights that speaks more to our weaknesses as Men. 

Couple of things to keep in mind. I don’t speak for ALL men. However, if you are proud of being strong and independent and you’re wondering why a certain kind of man isn’t going for you, perhaps this might explain why. And lastly…there are a lot of women who claim to be “strong and independent” the same way a lot of people claim to be “Christians”. If you’re not, you’re not. We’re going to be honest today. 

Allow me to begin by suggesting there are different types of strengths and weaknesses. An example mentioned in other essays (and by a late Christian Apologetic): Men generally have greater physical strength, but a woman may have greater emotional strength. When you have a sick dying child, the father may need to get up and leave the room because his emotions are too much, while the mother will have the strength stay by the child’s side. 

What prompted this essay, though the topic’s been on my mind for a while, was when a speaker suggested that a “Woman’s strength is in the façade of her weakness.” He used it to explain why a lot of men might not be as interested in marriage and long-term relationships as the men of prior generations. I thought it was weird and dismissed it at first…but lately, I’m beginning to understand.  

More and more ladies are openly asking, “What’s the point of a man?” There’s a famous clip of Cher where she’s asked, “Do You Think Men Are Important?” She answers, “for what?”. 

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All of the Benefits but None of the Conditions – Marriage and Salvation

Posted by Rock Kitaro on May 1, 2022
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So…came across one of Melanie King’s videos where, once again, a lady’s confirming what a lot of guys have been saying about the dating culture these days. But don’t worry. I’m also going to hit at Male Leadership and why we as Christians need to stand firm. 

In the beginning of the video, the soon-to-be divorced woman says, “you can’t dress a certain way and you can’t post sexy pictures on social media. But I dressed a certain way when I first met you!”…she says this to complain that her husband was “controlling”.  

Couple of thoughts here. First, you could say that this is just who she is, sexual and sensual, and a man has no right to change her. “WOMEN AREN’T DRESSED TO IMPRESS YOU! WE DRESS LIKE THIS BECAUSE IT MAKES US HAPPY!”  

Right, if you’re in that camp, this essay ain’t for you. I’m talking to the real ones out here who respect straight-forward honesty. I’m talking to the ladies who know they dress a certain way and posts pictures WITH THE INTENT of getting attention, attracting a mate. This doesn’t have to mean slutty or half-naked pictures…but come on. I’ve seen many of sistahs fully clothed in dresses that tell me everything I need to know and I’m like…  

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Putting the Mission First: A Christian Review of “The Batman”

Posted by Rock Kitaro on April 22, 2022
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When it comes to fictional characters, James Bond and Bruce Wayne have always been my favorite guys when it comes to encouraging me to stay focused and forge ahead. Heads up, this post is going to include just one spoiler if you haven’t seen “The Batman” yet.

Some of the greatest moments in my life were often unseen. So many times, I’ve helped people, sacrificed for them, pushed myself to get things done for them and went without recognition. So many times I’ve resisted temptation, yet still suspected of giving in. So many times I could have taken the easy way, methods that would’ve hurt or betrayed others to get me where I wanted farther and faster. But I didn’t. Instead, I see others taking the easy (wrong) way and reaping the rewards, looking at me as if I’m the fool. 

Most of the time, I take it in stride. I tell myself that God sees it and that’s enough. But every now and then, it starts to wear thin. The lack of appreciation or immediate rewards that almost feels like self-inflicted suffering starts to make me question whether being a good man is really worth it. Reading the Bible helps, but not when I’m resentful. Not when I’m down. Reading the Bible while I’m so full of pent-up frustration only makes me angrier at myself for not having enough faith. 

It’s then that I sometimes put on any Batman or James Bond movie (excluding the Roger Moore depictions), and through the example of these characters I’m able to shake off this human desire for recognition, appreciation, or validation. Just stay focus on the mission.

James Bond and Bruce Wayne have a lot in common, more than people realize. But for me, the main thing I’ve always admired was their almost dogged-like determination to stay focused on the mission, the overall objective. They may encounter romance, friends, and side-tasks along the way, but at the end of the day, the mission comes first. As a Christian living in these modern times…how can I not find that inspirational? Allow me to explain.  

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