News and Updates

The N-Word Doesn’t Offend Me…Sorry?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on September 11, 2022
Posted in: Essays, News and Updates. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Leave a comment

I wasn’t going to make a post about this video I recorded, but after reading one of the responses, I felt I had to dive deeper.

In the Caption, I say “I want to make it clear that I don’t speak for All Black People in this video…at the same time, I hate it when people who have the spotlight…THEY speak for all black people as if we all agree, as if we all feel the same. We don’t.”

As expected, there were a lot of people who saw the title of the video and just jumped to conclusions and posted comments without having actually watched the video. Which is alright. That seems to be the way of things. Not to mention, I think it brings a smirk to the faces of those who did watch the video and know I addressed a point the commenter was trying to make.

The whole point of me doing my videos, or writing my essays with a particular angle is to bring to light an opinion I haven’t seen presented on a greater scale. For instance, I didn’t post anything about the Will Smith slap for months because already I’ve seen it being covered. However, when it comes to the dreaded “N-word” and the controversy surrounding BYU and the Duke Volleyball player…I felt it was time to say something.

Continue Reading

The Truth about Body Positivity and Fat-Shaming

Posted by Rock Kitaro on September 3, 2022
Posted in: News and Updates. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . 1 Comment

Recently, the comedian Aries Spears made some jokes about Lizzo’s weight and appearance. Lizzo and her fans fought back where one of their arguments were, “But he’s fat too!”

As one who used to weigh 378lbs, I believe I have every right to speak on the subject. And I hope you can tell from my tone in the video that I really am coming from a place of love. This isn’t to mock or slight anyone.

Points Discussed:

  • Can Men Talk about Women’s Bodies? – @1:14
  • Should You Hate Yourself If You’re Fat – @3:11
  • My Inspiration to Lose Weight – @5:40
  • I Tried to Help a Friend Lose Weight – @7:15
  • Will You Still be Body “Positive” in your 50s? – @10:11
  • How I Got Up to 378 pounds – @12:01
  • I Was So Fat I Got Stuck in the Closet – @17:28
  • How I Felt When I Reached My Weight-loss Goal – @22:29

Expounding on this notion of, “But he’s fat too”…I don’t think I’ve ever respected this argument. I’m talking about the notion of, “You have no right to talk about a subject if you’re failing in the subject too.”

Continue Reading

Are Lolo Jones and Venus Williams Cautionary Tales to Young Women?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 13, 2022
Posted in: Food for Thought, News and Updates, romance. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . 1 Comment

This one goes out to all the Christians struggling to find a mate in today’s twisted dating culture.

Points Discussed:

  • Why would a Woman Want a Family?
  • The Difficulty of Being a Virgin in your 40s – @2:02
  • Godly Men Don’t Care about Riches – @3:41
  • Blaming Men for the Consequences of Your Decisions – @5:25
  • Women are Prioritizing their Careers over Family – @6:55
  • Being Past Child-Bearing Age – @9:48
  • I would’ve Respected Lolo if She took Accountability – @11:19
  • Beauty Fades, so Capitalize on It – @12:14
  • Lolo Jones Needs to Teach (warn) Younger Women – @13:12
  • Most Christians Don’t Practice Celibacy? – @13:38
  • Women Have More Dating Power than They Care to Admit – @15:39
  • Godly Women Trust in What God Says, over what the World Says – @16:28
  • Would I date a 304 who Repented? – @17:32

List of Bible Scriptures about that talk about Having Children if You’re Not Married – https://www.openbible.info/topics/having_children_outside_of_marriage

“Godly Men Don’t Care About Money – A Theocratic Essay” – https://stageinthesky.com/2019/10/16/godly-men-dont-care-about-money-a-theocratic-essay/

Have Black Men (or Single Men in General) Abandoned the Church?  

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 5, 2022
Posted in: Food for Thought, News and Updates. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . 2 Comments

Is it true that Black Men have “abandoned the church”? Clearly, there are still black men going to church. It’s not like you’ll walk into one and NOT see a black guy.  

But from watching the pastors on Jason Whitlock’s show and hearing Kevin Samuels over the past few years, there does seem to be this perception that “black men have given up on the churches”. I thought this was strange. And personally, I’d have no way of knowing whether any of this is true…because *chuckles nervously* as a black guy, I don’t go to church. 

First off, I want to make it clear that I don’t think churches, religious assemblies, and congregations are bad. I truly believe church and congregations are great and amazing events. The Old Testament taught that God loves assemblies. So, being that I’m a Christian…why don’t I go to one? 

The issues I’m going to bring up may be reasons why other men have stopped going and we’re just too embarrassed to admit it. I haven’t seen anyone else address or mention the MAIN reason why I personally don’t go…So here goes… 

THE CHURCH HAS CAVED TO MODERN WOKE IDEOLOGY – 

Let’s begin by addressing the common reasons I heard about why Black Men have stopped going to the church. Mainly, the sentiment is that the message, the pastors and ministers, have stopped preaching the Truth. Instead, the “Truth” is being watered down to walk lock-step with today’s woke ideologies. And in turn, they’re catering to women, telling women what they want to hear, instead of what the Bible actually says. 

Continue Reading

The Will Smith Apology – Why Black Men Were Mad

Posted by Rock Kitaro on July 30, 2022
Posted in: Food for Thought, News and Updates. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Leave a comment

For this one, I had to get my thoughts down about Will Smith. I didn’t speak up or publish any essays about the Will Smith/Chris Rock slap when it first happened because everyone was talking about it. But for this, I want to focus on the perspective of young black men “like myself” (not ALL black men) and why we were especially upset/disappointed with Will Smith.

Just a heads up, I’m very critical of Black Culture in this video and I talk about Christianity towards the end.

Points Discussed:

  • Will Smith was a Good Role Model for Black Men
  • I Don’t Believe in Cancel Culture
  • Protecting Black Women
  • Feminism
  • Prisons are Filled With Black Men
  • We Worship and Prop Up the Wrong Influencers
  • Why Father Figures are Important
  • Andrew Tate
  • Men Are Responsible for their Own Actions
  • Men are Supposed to Lead
  • Don’t be to Proud to Apologize

Sen. Tiara Mack Twerking – An Unpopular Opinion

Posted by Rock Kitaro on July 8, 2022
Posted in: News and Updates. Tagged: , , , , , , , , . 1 Comment

Long story short…sex sells and until she twerked upside down on a beach, I didn’t even know her name.

I want to make it clear that I don’t condone what she did, but something compelled me to be honest here. I know she’s not into men. I certainly hope she doesn’t get re-elected after this stunt and the response video she made where she basically told people to kick rocks…but this shameful behavior shouldn’t be too surprising.

Seriously, I wouldn’t be surprised if the next president was caught doing lines in the Oval Office. When a society like ours moves away from the Scriptures, yet a lot of them honestly believe that God accepts their bad behavior and they’re proudly doing what God wants them to do…all I can do is shake my head, try to educate others with the truth and just keep on moving, day by day, praying for the strength, patience, and wisdom to endure till the end.

We need to be more judgmental, especially in the Black Community. This fear of “I don’t want to be judgmental” and “it’s not my place to judge” is why a lot of people are simply allowing their friends, family, and associates to descend into failure under the messed up logic of, “that’s they’re life and they’re free to do what they want.”

“But Rock. How is that messed up logic? It’s the truth!”

It’s “messed up logic” because we live in a society. Perhaps I should work on an essay about how everything is Connected: from this thing called “Perception,” such as how Black People are perceived based on the actions and behavior of the black stereotypes the media shows on TV, down to the men and women who are raised in single-parent households who go on to commit crime and drain resources from the government…it’s not just “they’re” life.

If you raise children to be polite, respectful, and hard-working, you are contributing to a good, decent, and moral society. If you think it’s okay for 6-year-olds girls to go twerking and little black boys to curse to hip hop songs that’s all about robbing and treating women like whores…what do you think you’re doing to the society?

I’m not saying we should stop them physically against their will…but call it what it is. And if you’re not going to say something, at the very least, don’t nod along and smile because you’re too afraid of making them feel bad. (hint, they should feel bad)

Why Good Men Can’t Stay Silent – The Roe v. Wade Decision

Posted by Rock Kitaro on June 25, 2022
Posted in: Food for Thought, News and Updates, religion. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . 5 Comments

In the wake of Roe v Wade being overturned by the Supreme Court, many Youtubers were asking their followers (mostly black men) what they think. And sadly…what I’ve been seeing is this notion of “we gotta stay silent.”

This isn’t the first time I’ve heard such sentiments. Comedians have been preaching it to their audiences for years. “When it comes to abortion, we men need to shut the eff up” I believe Chappelle said, which was followed by raucous applause.

This was the comment from a Youtuber on the topic of Roe v Wade being overturned, “I’ve noticed when it comes to black women bodies and their sisterhood it’s best to say quiet fellas . All we can do is wrap it up and avoid a 18-year problem.”

Honestly, after seeing what’s been going on and recognizing the need for Men to actually step up and lead…I had to respond with this: “We can’t stay silent, bro. Unchecked immoral behavior is what’s led to the decline of our culture, society, and the increase of black children being born out of wedlock. We need to speak up. Some women need to be told something other than what stupid ideologues have been feeding them. We need to step up!”

Continue Reading

The Impact of Kevin Samuels – A Brief Tribute

Posted by Rock Kitaro on May 6, 2022
Posted in: News and Updates. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . 6 Comments

I know words like “controversial” and misogynistic are thrown around when it comes to Kevin Samuels. He blew up thanks to WorldStarHipHop because he told a 35-year-old black single mother that she was going to die alone. Of course, if you don’t know the context of this conversation, sounds like a horrible thing to say. Even with the proper context, it still sounds horrible.

But sometimes, the truth is horrible. Yes, Kevin did give a lot of opinions…but he also provided facts. Such as facts about fatherless households, or that being a single mother isn’t as pleasant and glorified as the media makes it out to be…or that a lot of people have been lied to by Feminism. Because he holds men and women accountable and calls the Black Community out on their BS, if you go to Twitter right now, you’ll find a slew of tweets celebrating and mocking the death of Kevin Samuels. He was 56.

When I heard about Kevin’s death today, my heart sank. As a Christian, there were some things Samuels said that was disappointing. For instance, he seemed to advocate the hook-up culture. He promoted the “high value male” lifestyle when, really, our priorities should be putting God first and doing what’s good in his eyes.

That being said, Kevin Samuels was doing a world of good when it comes to exposing the truth, hypocrisies and double standards within the Black Community. For years, for decades even…it seems like Black Women have gone unchecked in a sense. I know that sentence alone makes me sound like a misogynists, which is why Kevin Samuels was so valuable. Samuels and men like him were able to openly have conversations and say things that a lot of us men are actually thinking, what we want to say about black women and black culture, but we’d risk our jobs, careers, and reputations. (this essay was written on the fly. Not really edited to filter out inappropriate thoughts that might be deemed insensitive. So enter at your own discretion)

Continue Reading

60-Year-Olds Marrying 18-Year-Olds: My Unpopular Opinion

Posted by Rock Kitaro on March 27, 2022
Posted in: Food for Thought, News and Updates. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . 7 Comments

Recently, news broke about a 63-year-old Pastor out of Iowa who married an 18-year-old woman after her birthday. People are outraged. They’re saying this is wrong. And yet…something seems odd here. For some reason, I find the reactions more interesting than the Pastor and his young Bride.  

This isn’t the first time in recent memory that I saw a story of an older man marrying a just-now-legal woman. Last October, a 61-year-old man married his 18-year-old goddaughter.  

Again, outrage ensued. The general complaint was, this is an “older man preying on young, naïve, and inexperienced” girls.   

“That’s because it’s disgusting. It’s creepy. Who cares what the law says, it’s just wrong! Right, Rock? …Rock?”

Continue Reading

Keep Your Head Up, Christians – Encouraging Message (04/22/21)

Posted by Rock Kitaro on April 22, 2021
Posted in: Christianity, News and Updates, religion. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Leave a comment

I know… the Devil is Working Hard To Make It Seem Like You Don’t Exist. When you see what’s going on in the world, and you know you’re no part of it, it does feel rather hopeless, as it did last year, when you see mass groups of people rising up in common anger, indignation, but ultimately a purpose. A purpose that may be far different from your own.

We as Christians know that you can’t put your faith in human beings. All these calls for “justice” and “equality” are futile notions because we know the justice and equality they’re talking about isn’t universal. Meaning, it isn’t justice and equality for everyone, just them and their ilk, and their feelings.  

With Black Lives Matter particularly, even after the Chauvin Verdict, we already see them and SJWs moving the goal post. They got their desired verdict but it’s not enough. It’ll never be enough. Let me repeat that. It WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH.  

Continue Reading