Stage In The Sky

Author, Essayist, Provoker of Thoughts

  • Rock Kitaro
    • Allyssa’s Graduation
    • Remembering Autumn
    • Rock’s Introduction
    • Remember Patricia Griffin
    • Remember Patricia Griffin II.
    • Middle School
    • My Own Personal Kingdom
  • Bible Truths
    • Deuteronomy
    • Prologue – How Did I Do it?
    • 1. The Bible and Tolerance
    • 2. The World Starts to Make Sense
    • 3. It Explains Human Behavior
    • 4. You’re Never Alone with God
    • 5. Made Up Religious Practices
    • 6. How Satan Works
    • 7. Faith vs Intelligence
    • 8. Changed My Priorities
    • Redemption: Who Cares?
    • 9. Hope For Everlasting Life
    • 10. It Set Me Free
  • Knights with No Lords
    • Table of Contents
    • Chapter 1 – Vision
    • Chapter 2: The Lion
    • Chapter 3 – Orphans
    • Chapter 4: Fool Me
    • Chapter 5: Companions
    • Chapter 6: Auburn
    • Chapter 7: Trossachs
    • Chapter 8: Cascades
    • Chapter 9: Pellinore
    • Chapter 10: Daughter
    • Chapter 11: Paramour
    • Chapter 12: Emotion
    • Chapter 13: Wolves
    • Chapter 14: Juggle
    • Chapter 15: Crush
    • Chapter 16: 2nd Vision
    • Chapter 17: White Stag
    • Chapter 18: Generation
    • Chapter 19: Revenge
    • Chapter 20: Breakout
    • Chapter 21: Betrayal
    • Chapter 22: Weighed
    • Chapter 23: Despair
    • Chapter 24: An Ounce
    • Chapter 25: Escape
    • Chapter 26: Onslaught
    • Chapter 27: Knights
    • Chapter 28: Gawain
    • Chapter 29: Remember
    • Knights: Epilogue
  • Paramour Letters
    • Table of Contents
    • Letter 01: Women Really Do Run the World
    • Letter 02: The Green Cocktail Dress
    • Letter 03: The Network Executive
    • Letter 04: Gladys Vandelay, the Protege
    • Letter 05: Gladys – The Initiation
    • Letter 06: Hopeless Commander
    • Letter 07: Domestication
    • Letter 08: Assembly
    • Letter 9: Daughter’s Rage
    • Letter 10: The Cult
    • Letter 11: For the Living
    • Letter 12: Redemption
    • Letter 13: The Truth
  • The Slave Quarters
    • Table of Contents
    • Chapter 1: Old Smiles
    • Chapter 2: Horrid
    • Chapter 3: Meritocracy
    • Chapter 4: My Equal
    • Chapter 5: Next Case
    • Chapter 6: Pleasantries
    • Chapter 7: Cotton
    • Chapter 8: Majorettes
    • Chapter 9: A Suspect
    • Chapter 10: Emotion
    • Chapter 11: Thin Air
    • Chapter 12: Old South
    • Chapter 13: The Media
    • Chapter 14: Interrogate
    • Chapter 15: Wrong
    • Chapter 16: The Pieces
    • Chapter 17: Fear Me
    • Chapter 18: Not Over
    • Chapter 19 – Lights
    • Chapter 20: Seen
    • Chapter 21: Warmth
    • Chapter 22: Work
  • Published Books
    • Writing Fight Choreography in Books
    • Bios
      • Eliza Christie – The Jaguar of August the 18th
      • The Pierce Syndicate Characters
      • Race Track Road Characters
      • Dragon Ash Characters
      • Knights with No Lords
    • Six Steps for People Who Want to Write Their Own Books
  • The Truth Series
    • Men Converting to Islam
    • Red Pill and Christian
    • The Truth about Arrogance
    • The Truth About Jezebel
    • Truth About Good Girls Falling for Bad Boys
    • Truth about Self-Love
    • Why Christians Hate Being Judged
    • Dating Outside Your Race
    • I Hate Going to Parties
    • Losing Interest In Christian Women
    • The Truth About Being Brutally Honest
    • The Truth About Jesus’s Identity
    • The Truth about King Solomon
    • The Truth About Losing Weight
    • Truth About Single Mothers
    • Wives Submit to Husbands
    • Is “Ugly” Discouraging?
    • Is Sex All Women Have to Offer?
    • The Truth About Beauty
    • The Hidden Truth about Millennial Dating
    • The Energy You Put Out
    • Truth about Strong and Independent
    • Alphas vs Nice Guys
    • Have Fun Now, Get Religious Later
    • Judgmental Christians
    • The Truth About Adultery and Divorce
    • The Truth about Being Tall
    • Does God Really Hear Prayers
    • The Truth about Black Men vs Black Women
    • The Truth About Human Suffering
    • The Truth About Sexual Tension
    • A Study of Malachi
    • The Truth About the MeToo Movement
    • Disrespecting Christians
  • Critical Essays
    • I can relate to Clark Kent
    • 900 People Died because they Didn’t Know the Truth
    • Black Celebrities
    • Discovering the Sigma Male
    • She Hates You, She Loves You
    • Virginity in Today’s Hook-Up Culture
    • “Writing isn’t a hobby…”
    • 47 Ronin and the Will McAvoy Speech
    • A Line Where Modesty Leads to Depression
    • About deductive reasoning…
    • False Dilemma Fallacy
    • Forgiveness – A New Practice for Me
    • Intelligence – Best thing People Hate About You
    • Is being smart so important?
    • My New Role as Devil’s Advocate
    • Feelings of Inferiority and Equality
    • Five Situations the Ambitious Should Avoid
    • No Longer Diving In Headfirst
    • The Ignorance Bubble
    • Why claiming to be different can make look like an asshole.
    • Get Married before You Have Children
    • Godly Men Don’t Care About Money
    • If You don’t like Reading
    • Attack on Hand Me Down Statements
    • Creepy – How This Word Can Ruin Relationships
    • Racial Tension
    • When someone says they’re a writer, I cringe…
  • Drama Sketches
    • Romantic Comedy Premise
    • The Monster
    • Dr. Tobias Show
    • The Three Rocks – Being Stood Up
    • Attending Ms. Johansson
  • Kpop
    • Table of Contents
    • I. Korean Music
    • II. J-Rock
    • III. Rise of DBSK
    • IV. Legend of H.O.T.
    • V. The Legend of Seo Taiji
    • VI. Seven vs Rain
    • VII. Big Bang vs the Pretty Boys
    • VIII – Dir En Grey
    • IX. Tragedy of NRG
    • X. Anime Rock
    • XI. KAT-TUN
    • XII – Big Bang Explodes
    • XIII. Wonder Girls & Wheesung
    • XIV. Clazziquai
    • XV. Girl’s Generation
    • XVI. Korean Hip Hop
    • XVII. Old-School Kpop
    • XVIII. Dragon Ash
    • XIX. Epik High
    • XX – Taeyang & Shinee
    • XXI. Arashi
    • XXII. Maximum the Hormone
    • XXIII. Wonderbang
    • XXIV. 2pm
    • XXV. Big Bang vs DBSK
    • XXVI. Sorry Sorry
    • XXVII. 2NE1
    • XXVIII. Yoko Kanno
    • XXIX – Big Bang in Japan
    • XXX. Trax
    • XXXI. G-Dragon
    • XXXI. MBLAQ and BEAST
    • XXXIII. Fall of 2009
    • XXXIV. Losing Jay Park
    • 10 Kpop Artists Made for the U.S.
  • Old Stories
    • The Night My Mother Tried To Arrest Me
    • Rock Kitaro’s Ghost Poem
    • Dragon Ash
      • Dragon Ash – Episode 1
      • Dragon Ash – Episode 2
      • The Meaning Behind “Dragon Ash”
    • The Boys from Racetrack Road
      • Racetrack Road – Episode 1
    • Crusades Story
    • Romance in Philippe Park
    • The Godfather’s Sword: Braden Pierce
    • Eight for Death : Gavin Hassell
    • My Childhood with a Sociopath
    • The Killing on Corona Avenue
  • G-Force – Fan Fiction
    • Creating Worlds – Prologue
    • G-Force Chapter 1: Adoption
    • Chapter 2: Don’t F**K with Sailor Scouts
    • Chapter 3 – Sailor Jupiter Strikes
    • Chapter 4: Sub-Zero
    • Chapter 5: Love Bites and a Final Blow
    • Chapter 6: Majestic vs Ryu
    • Chapter 7 – G-Force in Full Effect
    • Chapter 8 – The Guy Who Beat Sailor Jupiter
    • Chapter 9 – G-Force vs. G-X
  • Rock’s Video Rants
  • 8 Things That Ruined Dating
    • 1. The Hook-Up Culture
    • 2. Tinder and Dating Apps
    • 3. Cat-Calling and Accusations
    • 04. Gynocentric Worship of Women
    • 05. The Weaponization of Women
    • 6. Rise of the Manosphere
    • 7. The Sisterhood
  • Travel Memoirs

Why it’s STILL BETTER to Date Christian Women over Non-Believers 

Posted by Rock Kitaro on November 17, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, dating, dating apps. Tagged: atheists, Bible, christian marriage, christian men, Christian Singles Ministry, christian women, Christianity, dating, dating apps, dating in your 30s, dating in your 40s, faith, female therapists, finding a husband, finding a wife, husband, jesus, Marriage, sigma men, wife. Leave a comment

Every time I watch videos about dating today, I realize just how backwards this whole scene has become.  

The above video sparked these thoughts: a guy talking to a therapist who’s giving him dating advice that basically boils down to, “Change who you are, so you can attract the kind of woman you don’t even want.” 

Yeah… no thanks. 

There’s a bigger conversation here, especially for Christian men who are trying to live right. Not the guys gaming the system or using religion as a loophole. I’m talking about the brothers who genuinely want to do what’s good in God’s eyes and still keep running into walls in the dating world. 

So, let’s talk about it. Points Discussed:

  1. Loudest Criticism: “Church girls are just as bad” 
  2. Christian Women Still have a built-in Standard that Atheists Don’t 
  3. Christian Dating Cuts Through the Stupid Modern Games 
  4. If She’s Living by the Bible and You Aren’t — That’s Not Fair 
  5. A God-Fearing Woman Won’t Fight You 
  6. Men Have Egos for a Reason  
  7. Be Careful Taking Dating Advice from Women 
  8. If You Don’t Have a Mentor, You Still Have the Bible 
  9. If You’re Single, You’re Still Useful 
  10. The Truth Solomon Already Told Us 
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Female Preachers in the Church – Am I Being Sexists? 

Posted by Rock Kitaro on November 10, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, religion, truth. Tagged: 1 Timothy, allie beth stuckey, Bible, Christianity, church leadership, erika kirk, faith, female pastors, female preacher, God, jesus, Jesus Christ, male leadership, mega church, Modern Christians, preaching to men, qualifications of pastors, sigma male, theocratic essay, woman pastor, woman preacher. Leave a comment

For years, I’ve been hearing about how the church panders to women. I don’t want to go so far as to say, “I didn’t want to believe it…” but it’s more like, I just haven’t seen it for myself to the level that I could nod in agreement.

My wife and I have been attending a popular church since June 2025. We really like it. We joined up with some groups. Met some amazing couple and we’re making new friends. 

This isn’t a Catholic Church. Not a Baptist, Lutheran, or Pentecostal. Just a Protestant church family with over 300 in attendance every Sunday in a massive complex that has an auditorium and classrooms where they host Sunday school for kids and meetings for adults.  

They believe in God and recognize Jesus Christ as our lord and savior. They sing songs with passion. And while I don’t agree 100% with all their beliefs, I understand that it’s going nearly impossible to find a church where I agree with everything being preached. 

One of those things I clearly disagree with this church about…is Women being on stage preaching to the audience. 

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All Your Sins are Forgiven No Matter What: Why I Hate This Message

Posted by Rock Kitaro on October 11, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, Food for Thought, religion. Tagged: Are You Really a Christian, Bible, Catholicism, Christian apologetics, christian author, christian book, christian men, Christian series, christian speaker, christian women, Christianity, Daniel Indradjaja, faith, forgiveness, God, Jehovah, jesus, Jesus Christ, love, lukewarm christians, millennial christians, Modern Christians, salvation, young christian. 2 Comments

If you believe in Jesus, all of your sins are forgiven. Everything you’ve done in the past and everything you’ll do in the future…it’s all forgiven by God no matter how many times you mess up. Why do I hate this message?

That’s the main message being pushed in this Men’s Group I joined at church.

Don’t get me wrong, I believe the message of Forgiveness should be repeated to those who are already deeply committed Christian believers. Yes…remind them of this message, that no matter how many times they mess up, God still loves them and they are saved. Preach it!

However…when it comes to my generation of lukewarm Christians, the ones who say they believe in Jesus and call themselves Christians without ever having picked up the Bible…not going to lie, dear readers, I hate preaching this message to them.

Why? Let’s talk about it.

  1. Lukewarm Christians are a Problem
  2. Ashamed to be Called Christian
  3. What Does it Mean to “Believe”?
  4. Do “Believing Christians” Have a Free Pass?
  5. Should Christians Feel Shame or Guilt?
  6. Is it Okay to Wait Until the Last Minute to Believe?
  7. Is Forgiveness of Your Sins the MOST Important Message to Preach?
  8. Epilogue: Replacing Religion with Equality and “Reason”
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The TRUTH about “Love is Blind Habibi” – Red Pill Lessons Men Can Learn

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 23, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, dating, online dating, romance. Tagged: ammar and karma, dating culture, dating in your 30s, feminism, hot women, karma, liberals, life, love, love is blind habibi, love is blind hajar, love is blind nour, millennials, modern woman, modern women, philosophy, red pill lessons, relationships, sigma female, sigma male, simo and hajar, single men, single women, spirituality, tradcon, wives. Leave a comment

In my last posts, I talked about the differences between Love is Blind Habibi and its American series. I debunked the claims of how the men are all “toxic and controlling.” It’s all about the power of choice and how some people hate that they’re simply forced to choose.

In my final post on the series, we’re going to examine the top three couples where bloggers absolutely hated the men. And of course, the reason why is because they stand on business. Allow me to explain. 

Points Discussed:

  1. Ammar and Karma – She Chose Belly-Dancing over Marriage 
  2. How Liberal Parents Corrupt their Children in Dating: 
  3. Hot Women Live in Different Realities 
  4. Mido and Nour – The Woman Who Wants to be Served but not Serve 
  5. When You Lie About Being Attracted to The Person… 
  6. Men Have the Power to Walk Away  
  7. Simo and Hajar – He Ditched Her on the Honeymoon 
  8. Dropping the Act Once You Get What You Want
  9. Real Relationships Aren’t Games – To the Ladies Who Love Drama 
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The TRUTH About Calling Men “Toxic, Controlling, and Abusive”?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on July 31, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, dating, millennials, online dating, romance. Tagged: accountability, bloggers, Christianity, controlling behavior, dating, feminism, husband, karma and ammar, love, love is blind habibi, love is blind habibi couples, Marriage, possessive behavior, red pill, reddit bloggers, relationships, sigma male, simor and hajar, single men, single women, toxic and controlling, traditional men, traditional women, wife, women, writing. Leave a comment

If you Google the show, the main criticism you’ll see is that the men of Love is Blind Habibi were supposedly “Toxic, Controlling, and Abusive” towards the women. We have to talk about it.

I had to give this point its own post because it’s a nefarious “high school” peer pressure tactic that’s been going on for years. What’s the tactic?

If you can convince people that something is bad, basically giving it a label like calling it racist, toxic or oppressive, it encourages others to 1) not follow that person’s example, 2) it discredits everything they do, and 3) it prevents others from openly liking/sharing/or commenting about how much they agree because they’re afraid of being labeled a bad person too.

Thus…it makes sense why they’d call the Men “toxic, controlling, and oppressive.” They don’t want other men to do what they did, and they want other women to believe that they’re being oppressed when really, they’re not.

For example, they absolutely hate it when housewives talk about how much pleasure they get from serving their men and taking care of the families over pursuing a career and being “strong and independent”. Let’s talk about it.

POINTS DISCUSSED

  1. They Hate Having to Choose
  2. Refusing to Accept Responsibility for Your Choices 
  3. If You Choose the Man, You’re Rewarded with a Husband 
  4. Do The Men Have to Change to Women? 
  5. You Don’t Have to Change if You’re Already Prepared for Marriage:  
  6. True Female Empowerment is a Mindset 
  7. You Can’t Tell Her What to Do, She’s a Free Woman
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The TRUTH about “Love is Blind Habibi”: What They DON’T Men to Know

Posted by Rock Kitaro on July 26, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, dating, religion, romance. Tagged: ammar and karma, Arab men, chafic, conservative women, conservatives, dating, dating shows, faith, feminism, liberal women, love, love is blind, love is blind habibi, love is blind karma, love is blind nour, love island, nour, red pill, relationships, simo and hajar, traditional men, traditional women, women. Leave a comment

After watching Netflix’s “Love is Blind: Habibi”…it’s pretty clear that a lot of bloggers, Feminists, and content creators don’t want American men getting any bright ideas. 

Points Discussed: 

  1. Intro – Are Traditional Men Hypocrites? 
  2. What is “Love is Blind” and Why is it So Popular? 
  3. They Prioritize Fame, Clout, and Fun over Getting Married
  4. Refraining from Sex Gives You Strength
  5. They Prioritize Faith and Tradition
  6. Respect and Honor Means Everything – Chafic’s Example 
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Are Women Really More Empathetic than Men?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on June 21, 2025
Posted in: creative writing, Essays, Food for Thought. Tagged: author, communication, compassion, creative writing, dating culture, emotional intelligence, emotionally unavailable, empathy, feelings, ghosting, love, Marriage, men and women, men's mental health, mental health, mental health awareness, modern relationships, psychology, relationships, sigma, sociology, sympathy, therapy, Writers, writing. Leave a comment

Easy, this is just food for thought. But it relates to relationship follies and even the characters, stories, and scripts that are written by female writers…that quite frankly, either don’t make sense or it’s not realistic.

Plainly put, the definition of Empathy is the Ability to “understand and share the feelings of another”. It’s your awareness of what the other person is feeling and why they have those feelings.

At the age of 38-years-old…I don’t think a lot of people have this ability. Not just women, but people in general. But as per the point of this essay, I think it’s an inaccurate stereotype to associate this ability with Women.

In my opinion…I’ve found that a lot of women from my generation seem to struggle to understand why or how another person is feeling what they’re feeling, unless (and only if) they’ve personally experienced that situation for themselves.

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Dear Hollywood, Please Stop Forcing Masculine Female Characters on Us 

Posted by Rock Kitaro on June 14, 2025
Posted in: creative writing, Essays, Food for Thought. Tagged: books, creative writing, daredevil born again, diversity in hollywood, female action movies, female characters, female superheroes, feminism, girl boss, girlboss, hollywood, masculine female characters, mcu, mission impossible, movie review, movies, new moviews, screenwriting, summer blockbuster, summer movies, the ballerina, women, writing. 1 Comment

My wife and I went to see the latest Mission Impossible movie…and aside from the convoluted plot and exposition dumps where characters took turns saying one line at a time (making you fully aware that you’re watching a movie)…one thing you’ll notice about the film is the proliferation of women playing roles that were traditionally (realistically) held by men. 

Seriously, the US president is Angela Bassett, the Secret Service agent who springs into action and takes down a bad guy is a petite Asian woman, the commander of an aircraft carrier is a Guile-looking white woman, and one of the main female soldiers on the submarine is a cringy tom-boyish lesbian in a tank top who acts more masculine than the men around her. 

And these aren’t just background characters. Every time they’re on screen, they play the most prominent role over every other character. It’s in your face. As if, “You’re going to watch me whether you like it or not.” 

I’m not saying it’s impossible for women to hold these traditionally male roles. But as I’m going to explain, it does ruin the magic of movies when you constantly have to work to suspend your disbelief. 

POINTS DISCUSSED: 

  1. How Are they “Forcing” the Characters on Us? 
  2. The Insufferable Personalities 
  3. Feminists Deliberately Hijack Male Programming 
  4. How Disney RUINED DareDevil 
  5. Why We Don’t Care about Female Superheroes 
  6. At Least Make Your Female Leaders an Inspiration to Your Male Audience! 
  7. Is Hollywood Making these Characters to Inspire Change? 
  8. Do We Really Need Representation in Films? 
  9. Charlie’s Angels Proves Feminine Action Characters Work 
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Should You Talk about God on Your First Date?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on June 11, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: Bible, christian dating, christian dating sites, christian men, christian singles, christian singles mixer, Christianity, dating, dating advice, dating with intentions, faith, first date, God, Jehovah, jesus, Jesus Christ, love, Marriage, online dating success, singles ministry, singles mixer. Leave a comment

Recently, on an awesome post by Jack about the Failure of Christian Dating Sites, a Regular and I got into an interesting discussion about whether it’s a good idea to talk about “God” on the first date.

The Regular’s position was that the first date is not where you want to talk about God, faith, or your Christianity. You should prioritize just having fun and getting to know one another. It should be more light-hearted.

My position was that we should definitely mention God and talk about our first date. Not just because talking about Christ is something I actually enjoy and hoped to find someone who enjoyed it as well. But also because of my intent and priorities.

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The Truth About Liberal Women Not Wanting to Date Conservatives

Posted by Rock Kitaro on June 1, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, dating, dating apps. Tagged: Atheism, atheists, ben and sara, Bible, Christianity, conservative men, couples, dating, dating culture, democrat women, destiny, faith, God, godly men, harry sisson, jesus, Jesus Christ, Joy Taylor, leftist, LGBTQ, liberal women, love is blind, Marriage, red pill, Sara Carlton, tolerance and acceptance, virginia and devin. Leave a comment

Is it a deal-breaker if you found out that the guy you liked voted for Trump? Would you break up with him if he didn’t care one way or the other about political issues like Black Lives Matter, Social Justice or Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion?

I agree that a couple should be aligned in their core values for marriage. However, I’m concerned that thanks to Social Media and this Perennial High School Mentality where the “cool kids” are still telling the others what’s cool or not, Women are being shamed against dating the kind of men who are raised to protect and provide for them.

It’s very much like the ladies of England pinning a white feather on men who didn’t enlist to fight in WW I. They didn’t just do this to label those men as cowards, thus shaming men into signing up for a war they really didn’t want to fight in. They also did it to shame all the other women from mating these kinds of men.

POINTS DISCUSSED

  1. Why Should YOU Care? Her Body, Her Choice!
  2. A History of Women Being Used to Corrupt Men:
  3. Tolerance and Acceptance is a Lie
  4. Love is Not Blind, It’s Woke!        
  5. If You Don’t Agree with Me, You Think I’m an Idiot
  6. The Results of Only Picking Liberal Leftists Men
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Black Fatigue and the Rejection of Accountability

Posted by Rock Kitaro on May 18, 2025
Posted in: black community, Christianity, dating. Tagged: baby momma culture, black community, black conservatives, black culture, black fatigue, Black Men, black statue in times square, black women, Christianity, fatherless households, fearless army, feminism, halle bailey, interracial dating, jason whitlock, kevin samuels, Marriage, politics, relationships, rihanna, Single Mothers, single parent households, stereotypes, women, writing. 2 Comments

First off, we all know that there are indeed people (black men) out there who deliberately use their platforms and messages to attack, belittle, and degrade black women. We know this. Anyone can pull up a clip and use it as an example. But that’s not what we’re talking about. 

POINTS DISCUSSED:

  1. Black Men Are a Problem too 
  2. Is Social Media Promoting the Stereotypes or Exposing Reality? 
  3. The Epidemic of Baby-Momma Culture 
  4. Why Black Men Are Afraid to Tell Women the Truth 
  5. Mad at Black Men for Dating Outside Their Race 
  6. Black Men Are Rejecting Black Culture, Not Specifically Black Women 
  7. Is White Culture Simply Better than Black Culture? 
  8. Black Women are Attacked…by Other Women 
  9. Epilogue. My Compassion and Understanding 
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Godly Men are Indeed RED FLAGS…To Women Who Hate God

Posted by Rock Kitaro on May 11, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, dating, religion. Tagged: Bible, christian men, christian women, Christianity, dating red flags, Devin and Virginia, faith, God, Godly Man, jesus, Jesus Christ, Joy Taylor, Joy Taylor Podcast, LGBTQ, love, love is blind, love is blind season 8, modern woman, political views, Religious Men, Sara and Ben, Sara Carlton, spiritual but not religious. Leave a comment

Don’t silence these women. Let them speak. Because by their words, they’re proving what men like me have been saying for years. Plainly put, a lot of modern day American women don’t want Godly Bible practicing Christians because women want to be their own gods.

POINTS DISCUSSED:

  1. The Wicked Tactics of Joy Taylor
  2. Are Men More Christian Than Women? (Love is Blind Examples)
  3. Weak Male Christians are a Problem
  4. Her Political Views Are Her Religion
  5. Should You Declare You’re a Man of God?

The Wicked Tactics of Joy Taylor

Here, we have 38-year-old Joy Taylor. She’s a FoxSports Personality who made headlines early this year as part of a bombshell report about her encouraging another woman to get into relationships with men, that way the woman can hang the threat of sexual misconduct over the man’s head to get what she wants.

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She Wants a “Battled-Tested” Christian, Not a “Church Boy”?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on May 4, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, dating, religion. Tagged: atlanta, Bible, black culture, black excellence, Black Families, black love, Black Men, black women, christian blog, christian men, christian women, Christianity, church girl, dating, faith, God, hip hop, hood culture, jesus, Jesus Christ, love, lukewarm christians, Marriage, Modern Christians, modern women, swag, thug in a suit. Leave a comment

We need to talk about how Christian Men are constantly being mocked and rejected by ladies who also claim to be Christians themselves. This is a problem.

By “Christian Men,” I’m not talking about the lukewarm Christians or those who are Christian-in-Name-Only. Those guys are fine. Women love those guys. I’m talking about the true God-fearing, Bible-Practicing Christians.

This essay is inspired by this video where multiple women criticize Christian men for being corny. One woman asked, “Why are Christian Men corny? Why don’t they have swag?”

POINTS DISCUSSED:

  1. She Wants a Thug in a Suit
  2. The Pressure for You to be a Little “Less” Christian
  3. They Claim They Want a Christian, But Not Really…
  4. We’re Not Supposed to Be “With the World”
  5. Why Hip Hop is a Problem…
  6. The Problem with Claiming You want a “Battle-Tested” Christian
  7. Christian “Church Boys” are More Charismatic than You Think
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The Masculine Egos Displayed on “Pop The Balloon”

Posted by Rock Kitaro on May 1, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, dating, romance. Tagged: american women, attraction, dating, dating culture, dating shows, egos in dating, feminism, ladies on pop the balloon, love, masculine women, modern dating, modern women, netflix show, pop the balloon, pop the balloon dating show, pop the balloon netflix show, relationships, romance, sigma male, single men, women. Leave a comment

It’s time we talked about the masculine egos on full display on the Pop the Balloon dating show. It’s so obvious it’s almost cringe. And believe it or not, it’s coming from the least likely of genders.

When it comes to “ego” and conceited behavior, men have been chastised and scolded for decades about it. Since the reboot of James Bond in the 90s, it kept coming up to describe him in which James just shrugs it off.

In “Casino Royale,” there’s a line where Vesper tells James to take the next elevator because there’s not enough room for his ego. *queue the fake laughter

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Final Parting Lessons to Help You Find a Wife on Dating Apps

Posted by Rock Kitaro on April 27, 2025
Posted in: About the Author. Tagged: bumble, christian husband, christian wife, Christianity, dating, dating advice, dating apps, dating coach, dating journal, dating life, dating sites, faith, Jehovah, Jesus Christ, love, Marriage, matchmaker, online dating, red pill, relationships, romance, sigma male, single men, single woman, singles ministry, tinder, women. Leave a comment

Allow me to conclude this 9-Part Online Dating series by passing down the main lessons I learned to find a beautiful down-to-earth Christian wife after failing in my two priors stints.

In my previous parts, I explained why a man like me had no choice but to go back to the dating apps because the culture ruined the old-school ways in which Men Approached Women. I explained why Dating Apps won’t work for most people, primarily because of egos and an overinflated sense of value.

I explained how I “changed up my strategy” by being my authentic self instead of relying too heavily on Red Pill advice that’s designed to attract the wrong kind of woman. I revealed which Dating Apps gave me the best chances. I divulged my failed matches and how it didn’t work out with some beautiful prospects.

And lastly, I talked about how I attracted and recognized my wife when I found her. It didn’t take years to figure out she was “the one”. It took courage to be open and honest with her, which allowed her to demonstrate the qualities I was looking for in a wife.

So, as I wrap up this series about Online Dating, I just wanted to hit on a few key points to pass down if you were my sister or brother and you’re still looking for a loving, devoted spouse.

What’s Discussed:

  1. Deductive Reasoning:
  2. Which Women Would I NOT Swipe on?
  3. 1. Smile in your pictures
  4. 2. Show off a little body
  5. 3. Be Yourself and Provide Info in Your Bio
  6. 4. Lead With Your Faith…
  7. 5. How to Demonstrate Interest Before the 1st Date
  8. The 1st Date: Public Place 
  9. How Much Money Should You Spend on a Dating Site?
  10. Patience is Golden:
  11. Prayer and Trust in God
  12. What it Means to Commit
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Online Dating: How to Recognize Wife Material When You See It

Posted by Rock Kitaro on April 22, 2025
Posted in: About the Author. Tagged: black couples, Black Families, christian women, Christianity, conservative men, dating, dating apps, dating appss, feminine women, husband material, Jesus Christ, kevin samuels, love, love is blind, Marriage, plain janes, proverbs 31, relationships, single men, single women, wedding, wife, wife material, women. Leave a comment

On April 5, 2025, I got married to a woman who I met through the Dating Apps. And at the wedding, one of her invites, a father-figure who I now call, “Mr. Ribs,” kept telling me, “You know what, young man! You found a good wife. And the Bible says, he who finds a good wife, found a good thing and favor with the lord.”

He said this, not once, but about three times…As if I didn’t know. As if I wasn’t already fully aware that I am blessed and found that rare Proverbs 31 woman…as if, it wasn’t until he pointed it out, that I went, “Oh my god…you’re right!”

No, no, no, ladies and gentlemen. I’m not a “throw caution to the wind” kind of guy. I’ve had plenty of opportunities to get with many woman over my 38 years of life, but I chose Julia. Why? Because I recognized she was “wife material”. Allow me to explain…

Points Discussed:

  1. A Man NEEDS to Be Respected
  2. Why “Plain Janes” Get Wife’d Up over Hot Girls:
  3. Marriage Will Be Difficult if YOU LET IT
  4. Will She Be a Good Mother?
  5. I Was Worried About Her Being Too Ugly
  6. She Acts like a Girly Girl
  7. She Treated Me Like a Husband BEFORE I Proposed
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Online Dating Apps: How I Found and Vetted My Wife

Posted by Rock Kitaro on April 6, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: art of conversation, black couples, black culture, black women, christian men, christian women, Christianity, dating apps, dating coach, dating strategies, hip hop, INTJ Personality, Jesus Christ, just married, love, Marriage, married, match.com, newly weds, online dating, relationships. 6 Comments

Yesterday, on April 5th 2025…I got married to a woman I found on a Dating App! In my last two posts, I detailed the many failed attempts I had with women I met online. But by the grace of God…I knew Julia was wife material and it didn’t take years for me to figure it out. Let’s talk about it.

Hopefully this will encourage others to be patient, trust in God, and use your best discernment. I’m 38-years-old. Julia is 30. Good men and women are out there. We’re just rare and not many qualify for us, if I may be so bold to say so myself.

Points Discussed:

  1. Who is Julia – My Future Wife
  2. I Chose Not to Play Two Women:
  3. She’s Not a Stereotypical Black Woman
  4. I’m Not Compatible with A LOT OF WOMEN:
  5. Dating by Your Own Rules:
  6. The Art of Conversation:

Who is Julia – My Future Wife

I found Julia’s Match.com profile on May 5th 2024, while I was still talking to Crystal. If you’ll recall from my failed Matches, Crystal was the single mother who originally ghosted me, but came back after a month to see if she could make things work with me.

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My Last Failed Matches from Online Dating – Third Times the Charm!

Posted by Rock Kitaro on March 30, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: communication in relationships, consistent communication, dating, dating a single mom, dating journal, dating red flags, dating woes, ghosting, girls like bad boys, i was busy texts, love is blind, Marriage, motivational, not texting back, online dating, red pill, silent treatment, single moms, Single Mothers, single women, spiritual but not religious. 1 Comment

My previous post revealed my top four failed matches from 2014 and 2021. In this one, we’ll examine two more from 2024…just before I found “the one”.

Points Discussed:

  1. Crystal – Is It a Deal Breaker if We Don’t Go to Church
  2. Spiritual but Not Religious:
  3. My Stance on Single Mothers:
  4. Sonia – The Girl with Communications Issues
  5. The Tactic of Using Ugly Photos
  6. Inconsistent Communication:
  7. She Prefers Exciting Drama over Boring Stability

Just a reminder, with these failed matches posts…this isn’t exactly advice. It’s just the brutally honest look into the world of an average 9-5 Christian man who went looking to find a wife. Some of it is hysterical. But hopefully there are lessons you can gleam.

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My Failed Matches from Online Dating – Part 1: 2014 and 2021

Posted by Rock Kitaro on March 23, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating, romance. Tagged: christian dating, christian feminist, dating app realities, dating apps, dating disasters, dating stories, difficult women, faith and relationships, feminism, feminism and dating, love and lessons, modern dating, online dating, online dating fails, red pill content, single life stories. Leave a comment

Alright! So, this is the first of two posts detailing the top six ladies I met through Online Dating Sites and how I failed spectacularly. Spoiler alert, with some of them, I admit I may have been the problem. I’ll let you be the judge.

Points Discussed

  1. Cassandra: The Girl Who Bragged about Being Difficult
  2. Sydney: The Christian Who Has Gay Friends
  3. When Single Moms Raise Children to Take the Place of Their Spouses
  4. Aleah – The Feminist Christian
  5. When the Woman is More Masculine Than You:
  6. Patricia – The Girl Who Was “Too” Christian?
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Which Dating Apps Gave Me the Best Chance of Finding a Wife?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on March 16, 2025
Posted in: dating apps, online dating. Tagged: best dating site, bumble, christian dating, christian men, christian mingle, christian women, dating habits, eharmony, finding a wife, Jesus Christ, male attention, match.com, online dating, tinder, top dating apps. 2 Comments

At this point, there are over 1,500 Dating Apps. There are some that are just for black people. Some for people over 50. There are some that claim they’re just for Christians. Which one should you go with? Which one gives you the best chance to find that special someone?

Points Discussed:

  1. Bumble.com
  2. OKCupid and Plenty of Fish
  3. Tinder:
  4. E-Harmony and Christian Mingle – The Christian Sites
  5. Match.com

Allow me to begin by stating that I have NOT tried all or even most of the dating sites that are out there. In the points discussed above, you’ll the see the ones I have experience with and it makes sense, given my intentions.

Also! Keep in mind that Dating Apps are a business. A company called Match Group owns many of the platforms I’m going to discuss and they rake in over $3 billion in revenue. That business model works if people stay on the Apps and don’t make any connections. So, while it makes sense for people to say, “get off the dating apps”…I’m here to say that they do actually work. If you use them right.

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How I Changed Up My Online Dating Strategy and WON!

Posted by Rock Kitaro on March 9, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: casual dating, christian women, Christianity, dating, dating advice, dating apps, dating profile, finding a wife, intent to marry, matchmakers, modern women, online dating, online dating in 2025, online dating success, relationship, romance. 3 Comments

In my last post…I talked about why Online Dating didn’t work for me back in 2014. I made a lot of mistakes. I didn’t have the experience or the maturity. But ten years later…ya boy had learned. I was determined to do things a little bit different.

In this post, I’m going to discuss what I did differently in 2024 that led to me finally finding a wife. And if you stop reading and take nothing from this essay, take this: If you tell anyone that you’re online dating, they’re gonna give you advice about what to do or say. But at the end of the day, you have to be yourself.

I know dating coaches and bloggers don’t like to hear that. But you have to remember, you’re not trying to attract “just anyone”. You’re trying to attract the person who’s best suited to be your wife or husband. If you’re using it for hook-ups, “nothing serious,” or friends with benefits…this post isn’t for you.

Points Discussed:

  1. Dating with Intentions
  2. Single by Choice
  3. Why I Didn’t Ask for Advice
  4. My First Impressions of Online Dating in 2024
  5. The Profile Bio I Wrote to Attract a Mate
  6. Discipline with the Time Spent on Dating Sites:
  7. Should You Lower Your Standards?
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Why Dating Apps Will NOT Work for Most People

Posted by Rock Kitaro on March 1, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: big women, black women, christian woman, Christianity, dating, dating apps, dating culture, feminism, kendra g, kevin samuels, love, love is blind, men, modern woman, modern women, nice guys, online dating, pop the balloon, relationships, sigma empath, single woman, white knight, women. 3 Comments

People are starting to acknowledge that Dating Apps are a waste of time. And yet for a lot of us, we also feel like we got no choice. So, with this one, we’re gonna talk about why so many are struggling to find someone. Especially, if so many of us already are on them.

Points Discussed:

  1. Why I HATED Dating Apps to Begin With…
  2. I Used to be a Blue-Pilled White Knight:
  3. Overinflated Egos
  4. The Absence of a Standard:
  5. Are Women Primarily to Blame?
  6. The “Love is Blind” Comparison:
  7. It’s Women Who Ruined Things for Women
  8. Hypergamy and Greed

Heads up, this post is going to be mostly negative and sound like a lot of complaining. But as part of my 8-Part series on the topic, I’m just getting all the bad stuff out of the way so I can talk about what actually did work in helping me to find a wife.

Disclaimer, this is coming from an average 9-5 Christian man’s perspective. You might have had different experiences, so read at your own peril. Because what I’m about to say is gonna ruffle a lot of feathers, but these things needs to be said.

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Why I Had No Choice but to Return to Dating Apps

Posted by Rock Kitaro on February 17, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: bumble, church girls, dating culture, dating sites, eharmony, high school sweethearts, love, marraige, match.com, millennials, modern dating, modern men, modern relationships, modern women, okcupid, online dating, relationships, single women, tinder. 3 Comments

I used to be just like everyone else who said Dating Apps are a waste of time. I wrote a whole essay about how Tinder and Dating Apps have ruined dating for my generation. But then I had to come to terms with the fact, that a man like me had little choices left.

Points Discussed

  1. Why Men Don’t Chase Anymore
  2. High School Sweethearts:
  3. Trying to Find a Wife in College:
  4. Trying to Find a Wife in the Bar:
  5. Trying to Find a Wife in the Club:
  6. Trying to Find a Wife at Work
  7. Trying to Find Her at Church:
  8. Trying to Find Her at a Singles Mixer:
  9. Trying to Find Her at the Gym:

To begin with, allow me to say that I’m not a dating expert. I’m not a guru or a pick-up artist. You’re reading the words of an average-looking nine-to-five Christian man who’s never been on board with the hook-up culture or all these stupid dating rules the mainstream’s been promoting via music, TV shows, and social media.

Long story short…The dating sites weren’t the problem. I was. In this 8-part series, you’re going to see how I first tried dating apps 10 years ago in 2014 (age 28)…and it wasn’t until last year (2024, age 37) that I finally found a woman worth marrying. Allow me to explain.

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Why Men Don’t Go to Christian Singles Mixers 

Posted by Rock Kitaro on February 9, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, dating, romance. Tagged: christian dating, christian singles, christian singles mixer, christian women, dating, dating culture, dating event, matchmaking, men in the church, modern women, single christian men, single christian women, singles event. Leave a comment

First off, I want to make it clear that this isn’t to bash women. As a Christian man who’s gone to Christian Singles Mixers, it’s simply to answer the question inspired by ChishaZed’s Video, where women are all asking, “Why aren’t men going to these Singles Events?”

 Also, another thing to keep in mind is that I don’t speak for all men or all Christian Singles events. This is just one man’s perspective. If it provides just a little bit of insight, hopefully it helps.

Points Discussed:

  1. Christian Men Don’t Follow the World 
  2. Men Don’t Need Congregations as Much as Women Do 
  3. The Church Makes Single Men Feel Lonely 
  4. My Experience at the Singles Mixer 
  5. Christianity and Feminism Does NOT Mix 
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Scarcity vs Abundance Mindset in Dating – An Unpopular Opinion

Posted by Rock Kitaro on January 5, 2025
Posted in: dating, Food for Thought, romance. Tagged: abundance mindset, dating, dating advice, dating apps, dating coach, dating culture, love, Marriage, men, modern woman, modern women, online dating, red pill advice, red pill content, relationships, scarcity mindset, women. 6 Comments

Long ago, I remember hearing Beyonce sing the lyrics, “I can have another you in a minute” as she describes leaving a contentious boyfriend for someone else. This is an example of someone who has an “Abundance Mindset.” The question is: Can you afford to have it? 

I just finished watching this amazing video from Medium Man (see above) where a 40-year-old man explains that he chose to marry his ex-wife because he had a Scarcity Mindset. Meaning, he married her because he was afraid that this would be the only woman he’d ever have a chance to marry.  

Medium Man talks about it around the 3:59 mark, and asserts that men need to have an Abundance Mindset when it comes to women. But is that wise? Let’s talk about it.  

POINTS DISCUSSED: 

  1. What is the Scarcity Mindset? 
  2. What is the Abundance Mindset? 
  3. Red Pill Advice Given to Men: 
  4. What Are the Odds? 
  5. Embrace Your Reality:  
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Black Women Don’t Want to Build with Black Men?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on December 8, 2024
Posted in: black community, dating, romance. Tagged: black couples, black culture, black marriage, Black Men, black stereotypes, black women, dating, dating advice, dating outside your race, dr umar, dr. umar, good men, interracial dating, kevin samuels, life, love, Marriage, pop the balloon, relationships, snow bunnies, white wives, white women, women. 2 Comments

The anger that boils from Black Men going after White Women is nothing new. Ever since I was a kid, there was always criticism when it came to dating outside your race.  It doesn’t matter what argument you try to make. It doesn’t matter if you say it’s just your preference and you got no hate towards black women. If you date outside your race, people will take it as an insult and a rejection of “your own.”

Recently, popular black activist Dr. Umar ruffled feathers when he spoke up on why “Snow Bunnies” (white women) are scooping up a lot of the sistah’s Black Men. He opined that a White Woman is willing to see the potential in black men and build with him. 

Dr. Umar went on to say that “Modern Black Women prioritize a man’s income over his masculinity. Meaning, he can provide, he’s willing to help with the children, he will nurture you, look out for you, but he might not be able to put you in a Mercedes.” 

It lends weight to the argument that women don’t want to run the race with you. They want to wait by the finish line and hitch onto you once you’ve made it. But is that wrong? 

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  1. Who is Dr. Umar? 
  2. Will a White Woman Help a Man Grow?
  3. Culture and Herd “Hood” Mentality  
  4. Black Men Must Stay Single and Build Himself First  
  5. We’re Likely to Meet More White Women on Our Ascent: 
  6. Will a Black Man leave a Good Black Woman? 
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The Worst President of My Lifetime

Posted by Rock Kitaro on December 4, 2024
Posted in: Food for Thought, History Lesson, News and Updates. Tagged: biden presidency, black parents, Donald Trump, Hunter Biden Laptop, hunter-biden, Joe Biden, Joe Biden Pardon, Laken Riley, news, political opinion, politics, President Biden, tren de aragua, trump 2024, Worst President, worst presidents. 1 Comment

On a perfectly lovely Sunday night, capping off a lovely Thanksgiving holiday…I saw news that deleted the last ounce of respect I had for this guy. When he pardoned his son.  

Without a doubt, Joe Biden is the worst president I’ve ever experienced. For those scoring at home, I was born in 1986.  

So, yes…I’ve read about the awfulness of presidents like Jimmy Carter, Nixon, and even bumbling 19th century presidents like James Buchanon and how Rutherford B Hayes dropped the ball when it comes to Reconstruction in the South. 

But Joe Biden…and quite frankly, everyone who was tricked, pressured, manipulated, and brow-beaten into voting for him… Points Discussed:

  • How Was He Elected to Begin With
  • Black People and Selective Outrage
  • Keystone Pipeline and Afghanistan Disaster
  • Ukraine
  • Trans, Supreme Court, and Education
  • Crime, Immigration, and Inflation
  • His Own Party Kicks Him Out
  • Pardoning His Own Son
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Why It’s Enticing for Black Men to Convert to Islam

Posted by Rock Kitaro on February 26, 2024
Posted in: black community, Christianity, religion. Tagged: black americans, black culture, black history month, Black Men, Black Men in America, Christian, christian men, Christianity, converting to islam, hip hop, islam, Jesus Christ, male headship, male leadership, muslim, muslim family, spiritual world, tank davis, writing. 2 Comments

Recently, the boxer known as Gervonta “Tank” Davis converted to Islam and took on the name of Abdul Wahid. Some people claimed he was doing it for clout. But I dunno. Even as a Christian, I’d be lying if I didn’t say there are some enticing reasons to convert to Islam.

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  • Christians Give Christians a Bad Name 
  • They Defend their Faith 
  • Muslim Women Respect the Men 
  • They Embrace the Patriarchy 
  • Men Need Purpose 
  • Brotherhood 
  • Test of Faith 

First off, I want to make it clear that the purpose of this essay isn’t to talk bad or disrespect Muslims or Islam. The crux of this post, as is with most of my essays…is to call upon other Christians to repent.  

Now right there, you might be scratching your head a bit. If we call ourselves Christians, why do we need to repent? I thought that being a Christian means that we have already repented. So, what gives? 

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Why You NEED Christians Who Are “Holier than Thou” 

Posted by Rock Kitaro on January 28, 2024
Posted in: Christianity, religion. Tagged: Christian, christian ministry, Christianity, creative writing, end times, fake christians, flawed christians, God, holier than thou, Jehovah's Witnesses, Jesus Christ, judging others, judgmental christians, self-righteous, stage in the sky, theocratic school, writing. 9 Comments

Alright…last one. This is part four of the reasons why we need to abolish this fear of being called “judgemental” in 2024. Because all it’s doing is silencing those who should be speaking up, while enabling those who need to hear the Truth.

In this thrilling conclusion, I’m going to explain why you shouldn’t be afraid or look down on the Christians who YOU THINK are holier than thou. These might be the very same people who have a hand in saving your life.

Sure, some can be annoying. Some people don’t know the meaning of discretion, time and place. And when you really do love your sinful behavior, when you just want to relax, take it easy and not care about how God feels about every little thing…these Christians can be infuriating. I get it. So, let’s talk about it.

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Are Your Standards Realistic? – Encouragement for Single Christians

Posted by Rock Kitaro on December 17, 2023
Posted in: Christianity, dating, religion, romance. Tagged: beautiful women, chastity, christian men, christian singles, christian women, church girls, church group, dating, dating culture, hook-up culture, hot girls, Jehovah's Witnesses, love, married couples, sex, sex before marriage, single christians, single men, single mother, single woman, singles ministry, virgin men, virginity, virgins. 7 Comments

This one goes out to all the Christians who are trying to live by Christ’s standards, and they’re asked this question. Especially if you feel like you’re the only one following the rules and getting nowhere for your efforts.  

The question relates to what I’m looking for in a mate. The question implies that you will probably never find what you’re looking for because what you want is unrealistic and thus, you need to let go of these standards and get with the times. 

Even if you rephrase the question with the warning of, “you know the kind of person you’re looking for is rare, right?” There are still implications. If you don’t follow up with any kind of encouragement, it does suggest that YOU THINK I should look for something else. 

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The Perennial War of Paramours – Reading, Reviews, and Concept Art

Posted by Rock Kitaro on December 13, 2023
Posted in: Character Bios, creative writing, Ebooks, Paramour Letters, rock kitaro. Tagged: action novel, action thriller, ai art, am writing, audio book, best books, book awards, book contests, book reviews, books, Character bios, concept art, creative writing, fanfic, feminist group, literary, love story, new books, novel, reading, rock kitaro, secret society, thriller, thriller books, war of paramours. 1 Comment

Hey everyone! Just wanted to give some updates of my recent release of “The Perennial War of Paramours” available at Amazon, Barnes and Nobles, and various other sites.

I’m currently entering the book into a several competitions to see if they win any awards. Though, I have to be careful because there are a bunch of contests and the entry fees can rack up quickly.

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How the Hook-Up Culture Ruined Dating for Millennials

Posted by Rock Kitaro on January 17, 2023
Posted in: Christianity, dating, Essays, millennials. Tagged: andrew tate, body counts, brittney renner, casual sex, chastity, christian values, Christianity, dating culture, dating sites, hook ups, hook-up culture, Marriage, millennials, one night stands, online dating, premarital sex, sex before marriage, sigma males. Leave a comment

This is the first of eight posts explaining how my generation of dating is not our father’s or grandfather’s generation.  

Why am I doing this? First off, you should know that there are millennials who are fortunate enough to find their partners and get married. These Millennials are blessed and likely have no idea what’s going on…which also means they probably don’t care and have a “sucks to be you” mentality…until they’re single again and are hit with the same reality rest of us have to deal with. 

Secondly, this is for the ladies who are still surprised about things like how men have stopped “making the first move”. Or why we don’t approach like we used to. They’ll say things like, “where have all the good men gone?” or “Whatever happened to chivalry” as if no one’s been watching the news for the past ten-fifteen years.  

And lastly, this is for the Older Generation, the Boomers, the Gen-Xers, and even some Millennials who are so far removed from commons folk, like Sen. Josh Hawley here, talking about how Men need to step up and marry these girls. Again, it’s like they have no idea about what’s been going on. 

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Deuteronomy – Appreciating the Severity of God’s Justice 

Posted by Rock Kitaro on May 16, 2022
Posted in: Christianity, Essays, religion. Tagged: Bible, bible laws, Bible lessons, bible prophecies, capital punishment, Christianity, Christians, creative writing, crime and punishment, death penalty, dennis prager, deuteronomy, empathy, Jeremiah, Jesus Christ, judaism, justice, justice system, king solomon, prison marriage. 1 Comment

Is it bad that I wish we could go back to the Old Testament laws? One of the things I like to say about the Bible is the New Testament teaches us the Gospels (Greek for good news), but the Old Testament teaches us about God’s character. 

This is my 3rd reading of Deuteronomy and I confess…it’s getting really difficult to see what’s happening in the world and not harbor all kinds of hate and resentment in my heart. It’s tough because, as Christ said, we as Christians should be the light of the world. I want to be an example of shining optimism, fully believing in the hope of everlasting life beyond this world…but lately, I’ve been this guy.  

For those who don’t know, Deuteronomy is the 5th Book of the Bible penned by Moses as God’s Word. Aside from the recap of Israel’s exodus from Egypt and their blunder that resulted in most of a generation perishing in the wilderness, Deuteronomy is essentially a book of laws, of traditions, of warnings, of blessings and curses. It’s the ultimate book of “cause and effect.” The answer to the question of, “WHY ARE THINGS SO BAD!?”

As I’m going through, I’m reminded of the brutal punishments God laid out for specific crimes and…i know this sounds bad, but I kinda wish we could go back to that. Part of me wishes we could go back to capital punishment for things like rape and adultery. 

“But Rock! If those old laws were put in place, there’d be no one left alive!” 

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When “Out of Touch” People Give Dating Advice

Posted by Rock Kitaro on October 29, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: christian men, christian women, Christianity, dating, dating advice, dating culture, jason whitlock, jason whitlock harmony, Jesus Christ, life, love, marriage advice, nick fuentes, nick fuentes marriage, online dating, red pill content, relationships, single men, single women, t.j. moe, tj moe, tucker carlson, women, writing. Leave a comment

The benefit of having gone nearly 20 years before I was able to find a woman worth marrying, is that I have insightful, boots-on-the-ground experience when it comes to today’s Dating Culture.

I’m not saying that one MUST experience something to talk about it…but if you are going to talk about it…and WORSE…talk about it with a sense of Authority as if you KNOW what’s going on with very little research. Be prepared to have people look at you like Leonidas before he kicked that one dude into the pit.

Instead we won’t be screaming, “This is SPARTA!” We’ll be screaming, “THIS IS REALITY!“

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They Hate Charlie Kirk So Much, They’re Leaving the Church

Posted by Rock Kitaro on September 16, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, News and Updates, religion. Tagged: baptists, Black Men, black women, candace owens, Charlie Kirk, charlie kirk and black people, charlie kirk racist, christian revival, christian women, Christianity, church, church girl, church service, faith, God, jesus, Jesus Christ, Modern Christians, turning point usa, walking away from church, writing. 1 Comment

In the wake of Charlie Kirk’s assassination, we’ve seen a revival of sorts where millions around the world are turning to Christ, millions are turning to God and millions are filing into their churches for guidance and spiritual healing. Satan sees this, and he still at work.

As you see in ChishaZed’s video above, many “Christians” have gone to Tiktok to post their grief, shock and horror…because some Pastors took a moment to celebrate Charlie Kirk. 

In the first video, you see a black woman talk with such sincerity, such distress. She claims her faith is under attack. She said that she had to walk out of church because her Pastor stood up there and praised, who she believes, “is a known racist”. 

She says it had her questioning her faith and she doesn’t know what to do.  

POINTS DISCUSSED:

  1. Questioning the Motive: 
  2. The Power of Misleading Narratives 
  3. Charlie Kirk Was NOT a Racist 
  4. The Lies Only Work on the Uneducated 
  5. 🛡️ Stand Firm: A Call for Men of Faith to Reject Cultural Compromise 
  6. 🎯 The Charlie Kirk Controversy: More Than Politics 
  7. 🧠 The Flawed Logic of Church Abandonment 
  8. 🏫 Peer Pressure and the High School Mentality 
  9. 📺 Love Is Blind and the Real-World Parallel 
  10. 🧍 Encouragement to Men: Stand Firm in Faith 
  11. 📖 The Armor of God: Your Defense Against Deception 
  12. 💔 Righteous Anger and Spiritual Sadness 
  13. 🕊️ Conclusion: Choose Truth Over Popularity 
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Mourning Charlie Kirk: A Legacy of Faith and Courage

Posted by Rock Kitaro on September 11, 2025
Posted in: Christianity, Essays, News and Updates, religion. Tagged: Brandon Tatum, candace owens, Charlie Kirk, Charlie Kirk Tribute, Charlie Kirk Turning Point, Charlie Kirk's legacy, christ is king, Christian, christian men, Christianity, faith, God, jesus, Jesus Christ, Men's Group, Modern Christians, mourning Charlie Kirk, pursuit of truth, Remembering Charlie Kirk. Leave a comment

If you go to his Wikipedia page right now, they describe him as a Political Activist. But if you asked Charlie Kirk how he wished to be remembered…he said, “I want to be remembered for courage for my faith.”

I originally titled this, “a brother who had courage to speak the truth” but Charlie Kirk wasn’t my mother’s son. Before 2017, I didn’t know he existed.

And yet…I shed tears for this man. For a lot of us, our unexpected reactions did feel like someone just killed our brother. But why? Allow me to explain.

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Why Men Passed on Riley: Steven Crowder Exposes the Truth

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 16, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, romance. Tagged: attraction, christian men, christian women, Christianity, dating fails, dating preference, feminism, feminists, husbands, male loneliness, male spaces, masculinity, men, mgtow, mormon dating, red pill, riley dating show, steven crowder, viral dating clip, viral video, wives, women. 1 Comment

I was going to write a long-winded essay on it (as is my way), but I just saw that Steven Crowder released a video in which he and his panel exposed the truth about our Modern American culture and how much they really hate straight Christian (and usually white) American men.

For those who don’t know, a snippet of a dating show has been made viral (60 million views) because you have a “cool and fun” girl like Riley go up and talk about how she likes to scuba dive and ski and was going to Australia…and yet none of the guys wanted her.

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