Stage In The Sky

Author, Essayist, Provoker of Thoughts

  • Rock Kitaro
    • Allyssa’s Graduation
    • Remembering Autumn
    • Rock’s Introduction
    • Remember Patricia Griffin
    • Remember Patricia Griffin II.
    • Middle School
    • My Own Personal Kingdom
  • Bible Truths
    • Deuteronomy
    • Prologue – How Did I Do it?
    • 1. The Bible and Tolerance
    • 2. The World Starts to Make Sense
    • 3. It Explains Human Behavior
    • 4. You’re Never Alone with God
    • 5. Made Up Religious Practices
    • 6. How Satan Works
    • 7. Faith vs Intelligence
    • 8. Changed My Priorities
    • Redemption: Who Cares?
    • 9. Hope For Everlasting Life
    • 10. It Set Me Free
  • Knights with No Lords
    • Table of Contents
    • Chapter 1 – Vision
    • Chapter 2: The Lion
    • Chapter 3 – Orphans
    • Chapter 4: Fool Me
    • Chapter 5: Companions
    • Chapter 6: Auburn
    • Chapter 7: Trossachs
    • Chapter 8: Cascades
    • Chapter 9: Pellinore
    • Chapter 10: Daughter
    • Chapter 11: Paramour
    • Chapter 12: Emotion
    • Chapter 13: Wolves
    • Chapter 14: Juggle
    • Chapter 15: Crush
    • Chapter 16: 2nd Vision
    • Chapter 17: White Stag
    • Chapter 18: Generation
    • Chapter 19: Revenge
    • Chapter 20: Breakout
    • Chapter 21: Betrayal
    • Chapter 22: Weighed
    • Chapter 23: Despair
    • Chapter 24: An Ounce
    • Chapter 25: Escape
    • Chapter 26: Onslaught
    • Chapter 27: Knights
    • Chapter 28: Gawain
    • Chapter 29: Remember
    • Knights: Epilogue
  • Paramour Letters
    • Table of Contents
    • Letter 01: Women Really Do Run the World
    • Letter 02: The Green Cocktail Dress
    • Letter 03: The Network Executive
    • Letter 04: Gladys Vandelay, the Protege
    • Letter 05: Gladys – The Initiation
    • Letter 06: Hopeless Commander
    • Letter 07: Domestication
    • Letter 08: Assembly
    • Letter 9: Daughter’s Rage
    • Letter 10: The Cult
    • Letter 11: For the Living
    • Letter 12: Redemption
    • Letter 13: The Truth
  • The Slave Quarters
    • Table of Contents
    • Chapter 1: Old Smiles
    • Chapter 2: Horrid
    • Chapter 3: Meritocracy
    • Chapter 4: My Equal
    • Chapter 5: Next Case
    • Chapter 6: Pleasantries
    • Chapter 7: Cotton
    • Chapter 8: Majorettes
    • Chapter 9: A Suspect
    • Chapter 10: Emotion
    • Chapter 11: Thin Air
    • Chapter 12: Old South
    • Chapter 13: The Media
    • Chapter 14: Interrogate
    • Chapter 15: Wrong
    • Chapter 16: The Pieces
    • Chapter 17: Fear Me
    • Chapter 18: Not Over
    • Chapter 19 – Lights
    • Chapter 20: Seen
    • Chapter 21: Warmth
    • Chapter 22: Work
  • Published Books
    • Writing Fight Choreography in Books
    • Bios
      • Eliza Christie – The Jaguar of August the 18th
      • The Pierce Syndicate Characters
      • Race Track Road Characters
      • Dragon Ash Characters
      • Knights with No Lords
    • Six Steps for People Who Want to Write Their Own Books
  • The Truth Series
    • Men Converting to Islam
    • Red Pill and Christian
    • The Truth about Arrogance
    • The Truth About Jezebel
    • Truth About Good Girls Falling for Bad Boys
    • Truth about Self-Love
    • Why Christians Hate Being Judged
    • Dating Outside Your Race
    • I Hate Going to Parties
    • Losing Interest In Christian Women
    • The Truth About Being Brutally Honest
    • The Truth About Jesus’s Identity
    • The Truth about King Solomon
    • The Truth About Losing Weight
    • Truth About Single Mothers
    • Wives Submit to Husbands
    • Is “Ugly” Discouraging?
    • Is Sex All Women Have to Offer?
    • The Truth About Beauty
    • The Hidden Truth about Millennial Dating
    • The Energy You Put Out
    • Truth about Strong and Independent
    • Alphas vs Nice Guys
    • Have Fun Now, Get Religious Later
    • Judgmental Christians
    • The Truth About Adultery and Divorce
    • The Truth about Being Tall
    • Does God Really Hear Prayers
    • The Truth about Black Men vs Black Women
    • The Truth About Human Suffering
    • The Truth About Sexual Tension
    • A Study of Malachi
    • The Truth About the MeToo Movement
    • Disrespecting Christians
  • Critical Essays
    • I can relate to Clark Kent
    • 900 People Died because they Didn’t Know the Truth
    • Black Celebrities
    • Discovering the Sigma Male
    • She Hates You, She Loves You
    • Virginity in Today’s Hook-Up Culture
    • “Writing isn’t a hobby…”
    • 47 Ronin and the Will McAvoy Speech
    • A Line Where Modesty Leads to Depression
    • About deductive reasoning…
    • False Dilemma Fallacy
    • Forgiveness – A New Practice for Me
    • Intelligence – Best thing People Hate About You
    • Is being smart so important?
    • My New Role as Devil’s Advocate
    • Feelings of Inferiority and Equality
    • Five Situations the Ambitious Should Avoid
    • No Longer Diving In Headfirst
    • The Ignorance Bubble
    • Why claiming to be different can make look like an asshole.
    • Get Married before You Have Children
    • Godly Men Don’t Care About Money
    • If You don’t like Reading
    • Attack on Hand Me Down Statements
    • Creepy – How This Word Can Ruin Relationships
    • Racial Tension
    • When someone says they’re a writer, I cringe…
  • Drama Sketches
    • Romantic Comedy Premise
    • The Monster
    • Dr. Tobias Show
    • The Three Rocks – Being Stood Up
    • Attending Ms. Johansson
  • Kpop
    • Table of Contents
    • I. Korean Music
    • II. J-Rock
    • III. Rise of DBSK
    • IV. Legend of H.O.T.
    • V. The Legend of Seo Taiji
    • VI. Seven vs Rain
    • VII. Big Bang vs the Pretty Boys
    • VIII – Dir En Grey
    • IX. Tragedy of NRG
    • X. Anime Rock
    • XI. KAT-TUN
    • XII – Big Bang Explodes
    • XIII. Wonder Girls & Wheesung
    • XIV. Clazziquai
    • XV. Girl’s Generation
    • XVI. Korean Hip Hop
    • XVII. Old-School Kpop
    • XVIII. Dragon Ash
    • XIX. Epik High
    • XX – Taeyang & Shinee
    • XXI. Arashi
    • XXII. Maximum the Hormone
    • XXIII. Wonderbang
    • XXIV. 2pm
    • XXV. Big Bang vs DBSK
    • XXVI. Sorry Sorry
    • XXVII. 2NE1
    • XXVIII. Yoko Kanno
    • XXIX – Big Bang in Japan
    • XXX. Trax
    • XXXI. G-Dragon
    • XXXI. MBLAQ and BEAST
    • XXXIII. Fall of 2009
    • XXXIV. Losing Jay Park
    • 10 Kpop Artists Made for the U.S.
  • Old Stories
    • The Night My Mother Tried To Arrest Me
    • Rock Kitaro’s Ghost Poem
    • Dragon Ash
      • Dragon Ash – Episode 1
      • Dragon Ash – Episode 2
      • The Meaning Behind “Dragon Ash”
    • The Boys from Racetrack Road
      • Racetrack Road – Episode 1
    • Crusades Story
    • Romance in Philippe Park
    • The Godfather’s Sword: Braden Pierce
    • Eight for Death : Gavin Hassell
    • My Childhood with a Sociopath
    • The Killing on Corona Avenue
  • G-Force – Fan Fiction
    • Creating Worlds – Prologue
    • G-Force Chapter 1: Adoption
    • Chapter 2: Don’t F**K with Sailor Scouts
    • Chapter 3 – Sailor Jupiter Strikes
    • Chapter 4: Sub-Zero
    • Chapter 5: Love Bites and a Final Blow
    • Chapter 6: Majestic vs Ryu
    • Chapter 7 – G-Force in Full Effect
    • Chapter 8 – The Guy Who Beat Sailor Jupiter
    • Chapter 9 – G-Force vs. G-X
  • Rock’s Video Rants
  • 8 Things That Ruined Dating
    • 1. The Hook-Up Culture
    • 2. Tinder and Dating Apps
    • 3. Cat-Calling and Accusations
    • 04. Gynocentric Worship of Women
    • 05. The Weaponization of Women
    • 6. Rise of the Manosphere
    • 7. The Sisterhood
  • Travel Memoirs

Top 10 Ways the Bible Changed My Life: #8. The Bible Changed My Priorities

Posted by Rock Kitaro on December 13, 2020
Posted in: About the Author, Christianity. Tagged: author, Bible, Christianity, high value, life choices, priorities, publishing, rich, successful, Writers, writing. 3 Comments

During my 20s, I obsessed over two main goals. One was to lose weight after getting up to 378lbs. I succeeded in getting down to 220. The other was to become a published author, and not just “any” published author. I wanted to be the best. The kind future generations had to write reports about in school.

Just recently, a friend asked me why I had given up on that goal. It’s difficult to explain without sounding like I’ve straight-up failed. It’s understandable to assume I was using the Bible as an excuse, as if to say I couldn’t hack it in the world of publishing. Because he asked a good question.

“What does reading the Bible have to do with you not succeeding as an author? It’s not like you’re doing drugs or committing a crime. Are you saying God doesn’t approve of authors or success?”

He didn’t ask those questions to offend me. I could tell he was genuinely seeking to understand. Truth is, I haven’t given up on that goal. The difference between 34-year-old Rock and 24-year-old Rock is that it’s no longer the priority. It’s still high up there. But once upon a time, nothing else mattered more.

First off, you have to understand that being a Christian is voluntary. Reading the Bible and believing in Christ’s teachings is something we “choose” to do. So as I begin, I’d like you to keep these critical scriptures in mind.

In Matthew 19:16-23. A rich young man asks Jesus, “What must I do to have eternal life?” Since he was a boy, the young man has kept the commandments. He didn’t steal. He didn’t commit murder. He honored his mother and father. So what commandment must he do to have eternal life?  

In verse 21, Jesus answered, “Sell what you possess and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven, and come and follow me.” 

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Top 10 Ways the Bible Changed My Life: #7. It Taught Me that Faith and Intelligence Go Hand-in-Hand

Posted by Rock Kitaro on December 7, 2020
Posted in: Christianity, Essays, Food for Thought, religion. Tagged: atheists, belief, Bible, Christian, faith, Intelligence, proof, religion, smart people, smartest, wisdom, wise. Leave a comment

“If you feel like you’re the smartest person in the room, then you’re in the wrong room.”…If you agree with this statement, step one is recognizing that there are people who are smarter than you. Can you do that?

It’s funny…because I’ve been called arrogant. I’ve been called egotistical and too full of myself. But unlike the people who called me those things, I actively seek out people who I perceive to be better than me, smarter than me. I’m not offended or discouraged by them. They inspire me. Instead of belittling and diminishing them so they can feel like they’re down at my level and we’re equals, I’m inspired to better myself so I can rise up to theirs. 

If you’re a high school basketball player and you want to improve, you don’t go scrimmage with a bunch of novice 5th graders. No! You seek out the best players on the block who are all college material. Being on the court with “superior” athletes, forces you to up your game if you want to compete.

That’s what reading the Bible and talking to other Bible scholars has done for me.  

If you Google “Smartest Person in the World,” you’ll see pictures with the likes of Marie Curie, Voltaire, da Vinci, and Einstein. It’s interesting…on this list of “Top 40 Smartest People of All Time”…you won’t find names like Solomon, Hezekiah, Samuel, or Isaiah. 

In 1st Kings 3:12, God himself said, “Behold, I give you a wise and discerning mind, so that none like you has been before you and none like you shall arise after you.” 

…none like you has been before you and non like you shall arise after you…God said that about King Solomon. Therefore, it is my opinion, that Solomon was the wisest man who ever lived. But still…what is wisdom? There’s a school of thought that “wisdom is the best application of knowledge to attain one’s goal.”

Proverbs 9:10 says, “The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom and knowledge of the Most Holy One is understanding.” 

Alright, well what does that mean? 

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Top 10 Ways the Bible Changed My Life: #6. It Taught Me How Satan Works

Posted by Rock Kitaro on November 30, 2020
Posted in: Christianity, religion, truth. Tagged: Apostasy, armor of god, Atheism, bad things, blaming god, Christian, evil, having fun, jesus, lies, media, pop culture, salvation, satan, secularism, sex, Single Mothers, viral post. Leave a comment

If you’ve never been in a fight…how do you know how well you’ll react or what you’ll do? If you’ve never practiced or taken a single self-defense class, but step into the octagon against a trained Martial Artist, do you think you’ll win that fight?

“Well the answer is simple, Rock. I wouldn’t step into the octagon!”

Too late. You were born. You exist. Whether you believer it or not, you are on the battlefield. Life is full of victories and losses.

How many times have we heard something along the lines of, “You shouldn’t have to go outside without worrying about being profiled, or experiencing racism, getting kidnapped, being stalked, fearing for your life, worrying about your child going to school, fearing a bombing, fearing a mass shooting, getting raped, or being abused.”

“But, Rock. People are just saying you “shouldn’t” have to…” 

Here’s the thing…Who told you that? Who told you that you should be able to do whatever you want, go wherever you want, and nothing bad should ever happen to you? Is it in the Bible? Are there conditions to it? Let’s put a pin in that for now. But keep it in mind as we begin. 

If you’ve never been in a fight, but face off against a trained Martial Artist, you’re going to get wrecked. Why? Because you’re vulnerable to all kinds of attacks. You don’t know how to defend yourself, or how the person’s gonna attack, or what to do when you’re getting hit. 

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Top 10 Ways the Bible Changed My Life: #5. It Taught Me Which Religious Practices Were Made Up By Man

Posted by Rock Kitaro on November 21, 2020
Posted in: Christianity, religion. Tagged: Bible Truth, Catholicism, Christianity, false religions, God, Jesus Christ, knowledge, oppression, religion, religious practices, victim mentality, victims. Leave a comment

This year, I watched deeply disturbing documentaries about Jeffery Epstein and R. Kelly. The thing I found that was very similar between their victims, the survivors…was how vulnerable they were. But what does that mean? To be vulnerable? 

When I heard the victims speak…it hurt my heart. Not just because of what happened to them, but how it happened. Ladies and Gents, I’m a staunch believer of accountability, that we’re all responsible for what happens to us in our lives and how we handle it. But these victims were all underage; seventeen and as young as twelve. I believe the predators were able to prey on them because of things these victims did not know. 

By some accounts, the victims (now grown adults) kept saying how they knew what they were doing was wrong…but they were too afraid to stop or leave out of fear. They were afraid of death, of getting hurt, of having their careers or futures ruined. And yet…they kept coming back. They stayed. Some even returned with “friends” who ended up being subjected to the same thing. This is puzzling.  

Honestly. I’m not trying to blame the victim, but to understand them. And the answer that keeps coming back was that they simply did not know what to do. Bear with me.

Think back to slavery…not just slavery in America, but Rome or even the serfs working the fields during the Middle Ages. Of those serfs and slaves, how many do you think KNEW they didn’t have to be a slave or a serf? At any point they could have fought for their freedom or fled.  

Yes, you could say that they would have been captured and killed, but that doesn’t eliminate the fact that they still had a choice.

Do this or die, is still a choice. A horrible choice. But a choice, nonetheless. 

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Top 10 Ways the Bible Changed My Life: #4. It Connected Me With the Most Dependable Friend I’ll Ever Need

Posted by Rock Kitaro on November 15, 2020
Posted in: Christianity, Essays, religion. Tagged: alone, Being Alone, christian millennial, Christianity, depression, jesus, loneliness, lonely, love, religion, single, suicide, you're not alone. Leave a comment

This one is for those who are afraid of ending up alone…so much so that they’d stay in situations where they’re abused and taken advantage of just to avoid that loneliness. This is for those who feel like they have no place in this world.

Some of us are blessed to have a tight-knit circle of friends. Some of us have one or two buddies they can always depend on. Some of us have boyfriends, girlfriends, wives or husbands we can talk to. Those who uplift us and encourage us when we’re down, who celebrate us in our triumphs.

What about the rest of us? 

I took an Enneagram Personality test last year in which I was labeled a Type 3, work-oriented, driven, and thrived on results. Another trait associated with “3” is that WE NEED validation. Sounds bad, doesn’t it? I’ve heard it said many times that anyone who’s constantly seeking validation is “sad, pathetic and weak.”

Truth is, I really do seek validation. And yet, I wouldn’t describe myself as sad, pathetic, and weak. I used to…back when I sought validation from “everyone.” Back then, I was seeking to impress not just family members, but also my peers, my colleagues, co-workers, friends, millions of potential fans as an author, and of course potential love interests.

And I confess…when I didn’t get that validation, it would depress me deeply…

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Top 10 Ways the Bible Changed My Life: #3. It Explains Human Behavior

Posted by Rock Kitaro on November 8, 2020
Posted in: Christianity, Essays, religion. Tagged: bible truths, Christian apologetics, christian sigma, Christianity, human behavior, Human Nature, love, millennials, psychology, self-love. Leave a comment

Psychology is the study of mind and behavior. I could go to school and spend years studying the greats like Freud, Pavlov, and Carl Jung…or I could just pick up and read the Bible. I’m not knocking those men or their work. But who better to find out the truth about ourselves, than from the One who created us?  

God made humans in his image. That alone should give you some indication that we are more than just mere “creatures”. The Book of Genesis teaches us that God gave us dominion over all other creatures on the planet. I’m pointing this out not to rile up animal lovers…but to emphasize how much God favors us.

And what if I told you that not only did he create us in his image, he also embedded in us the feelings, instincts, and a sense of right and wrong? How many times have you heard this?: “I’m not a Christian. I’m not a believer, but I’m still a good person. You can be a moral person without being a Christian!” 

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Top 10 Ways the Bible Changed My Life: #2. The World Starts to Make Sense

Posted by Rock Kitaro on November 1, 2020
Posted in: Christianity, religion. Tagged: Atheism, Bible, Christianity, common sense, God, Intelligence, Jesus Christ, millennial, philosophy, religion, world. 4 Comments

“Why does this keep happening?”  

“What kind of God allows murderers and pedophiles to exist?” 

“If God was real, he would never allow so much pain and suffering to go on!”  

After the Parkland Shooting where seventeen students were killed by a gunman in my own state of Florida, I passed by an employee from a different department, an older white woman.  

So emotional, she said, “Why does this keep happening!”  

And I confess…I smirked. Sounds horrible doesn’t it?

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Top 10: #1. The Bible Actually Made Me More Tolerant

Posted by Rock Kitaro on October 25, 2020
Posted in: Christianity, Essays, religion. Tagged: acceptance, Bible, bible tolerance, Christianity, Jesus Christ, LGBT, love, religion, tolerance. 1 Comment

I had to start with this one because I know it contradicts the current mainstream thought when it comes to religion. But that’s because I believe people often misconstrue tolerance…with condoning. Hate the sin…not the sinner.

The Top 10 Ways the Bible Changed My Life: 1. The Bible Actually Made Me More Tolerant

In reading the Bible in its entirety, not just pieces, you’re able to see the big picture. You see what happened, what’s happening, why it’s happening, and what’s going to happen. And because I believe with conviction, I’m able to tolerate different points of view with the lens of a spectator, the lens of a Witness…Part of the world, yet taking no part in the world.

In reading the Bible you come to understand that nothing happens by accident. God creates the good days and the bad days. There’s logic and reason, cause and effect. If you believe and trust in God, an almighty entity that created human existence and could wipe us all out in an instant, do you really think he needs you fight his battles for him? 

Or are you just using his name to fight your own personal battle? Allow me to illustrate.  

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Prologue – How Was I Able to Read The Entire Bible?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on October 18, 2020
Posted in: About the Author, religion. Tagged: Bible, Christianity, Jehovah, Jesus Christ, Millennial Christian, Reading the Bible. Leave a comment

One chapter at a time.

Bible and Rock

This is a common question I get when it comes to reading the entire Bible. I know a lot of people have read bits and pieces. Some people have specific scriptures memorized. John 3:16 is a popular one. But actually sitting down and reading the Bible cover to cover…to be honest, when I first did it, I never thought of it was some big accomplishment.

At First, I Hated Religion

Just to give you a little background about who I am. I’m a black 34-year-old Christian Conservative born and raised here in the States. I’ve never been to any Christian College or Theocratic School.

From the age of 12-17, I was raised in a religion that I found extremely oppressive, Jehovah’s Witness. That’s not to knock the religion. All Witnesses aren’t the same, just like all Catholics or Baptist aren’t the same. You’ll never find a nicer group of people…but my parents were new to the religion. And while they may very well have been doing their best, it took a toll. Everything I loved about my childhood was taken away when they joined that religion (like holidays and martial arts). And if I didn’t believe the way they believed, I was hit with guilt trips. They used the False Dilemma fallacy where, if you didn’t believe like a Jehovah’s Witness, then you were wrong and against God. Continue Reading

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Top 3 Reasons That Cause Me to Lose Interest in Women Who Claim to Be Christian

Posted by Rock Kitaro on July 5, 2020
Posted in: religion, romance. Tagged: Christian, christian dating, christian women, dating sites, good men, jesus, Marriage, modern relationships, sex, wedding. 1 Comment

This is inspired by a video I watched from a Christian Youtuber where she talks about “Bad Christian Advice For Singles” when it comes to dating, from a woman’s perspective. I listened and thought that was cool. So, this list is from a man’s perspective.

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Because here’s the thing. I’ve seen comments and complaints from women who say that there’s not enough Christian men out there. Or “good men don’t want them because they’re “too Christian.” This list might give you some greater insight on all that. These are my Top 3 Things That May Cause Me to Lose Interest in a Woman Who Claims to be Christian.

1. They Don’t Take Their Looks Seriously and Believe You Shouldn’t Either

It’s what’s on the inside that counts, right?

I have compassion with this one so I’m going to try and be delicate. If you’re a good Christian woman endeavoring to do what’s good in God’s eyes, why should you be concerned with your beauty? If you’re doing what’s good in God’s eyes and men aren’t attracted to you, then clearly those men must not love God, right?

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