Stage In The Sky

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  • Rock Kitaro
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    • Chapter 20: Breakout
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    • Chapter 22: Weighed
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    • Chapter 24: An Ounce
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    • Chapter 26: Onslaught
    • Chapter 27: Knights
    • Chapter 28: Gawain
    • Chapter 29: Remember
    • Knights: Epilogue
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    • Table of Contents
    • Letter 01: Women Really Do Run the World
    • Letter 02: The Green Cocktail Dress
    • Letter 03: The Network Executive
    • Letter 04: Gladys Vandelay, the Protege
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    • Letter 06: Hopeless Commander
    • Letter 07: Domestication
    • Letter 08: Assembly
    • Letter 9: Daughter’s Rage
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    • Letter 12: Redemption
    • Letter 13: The Truth
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    • Chapter 1: Old Smiles
    • Chapter 2: Horrid
    • Chapter 3: Meritocracy
    • Chapter 4: My Equal
    • Chapter 5: Next Case
    • Chapter 6: Pleasantries
    • Chapter 7: Cotton
    • Chapter 8: Majorettes
    • Chapter 9: A Suspect
    • Chapter 10: Emotion
    • Chapter 11: Thin Air
    • Chapter 12: Old South
    • Chapter 13: The Media
    • Chapter 14: Interrogate
    • Chapter 15: Wrong
    • Chapter 16: The Pieces
    • Chapter 17: Fear Me
    • Chapter 18: Not Over
    • Chapter 19 – Lights
    • Chapter 20: Seen
    • Chapter 21: Warmth
    • Chapter 22: Work
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    • Truth About Single Mothers
    • Wives Submit to Husbands
    • Is “Ugly” Discouraging?
    • Is Sex All Women Have to Offer?
    • The Truth About Beauty
    • The Hidden Truth about Millennial Dating
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    • About deductive reasoning…
    • False Dilemma Fallacy
    • Forgiveness – A New Practice for Me
    • Intelligence – Best thing People Hate About You
    • Is being smart so important?
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    • Five Situations the Ambitious Should Avoid
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    • The Ignorance Bubble
    • Why claiming to be different can make look like an asshole.
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    • If You don’t like Reading
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    • When someone says they’re a writer, I cringe…
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    • Table of Contents
    • I. Korean Music
    • II. J-Rock
    • III. Rise of DBSK
    • IV. Legend of H.O.T.
    • V. The Legend of Seo Taiji
    • VI. Seven vs Rain
    • VII. Big Bang vs the Pretty Boys
    • VIII – Dir En Grey
    • IX. Tragedy of NRG
    • X. Anime Rock
    • XI. KAT-TUN
    • XII – Big Bang Explodes
    • XIII. Wonder Girls & Wheesung
    • XIV. Clazziquai
    • XV. Girl’s Generation
    • XVI. Korean Hip Hop
    • XVII. Old-School Kpop
    • XVIII. Dragon Ash
    • XIX. Epik High
    • XX – Taeyang & Shinee
    • XXI. Arashi
    • XXII. Maximum the Hormone
    • XXIII. Wonderbang
    • XXIV. 2pm
    • XXV. Big Bang vs DBSK
    • XXVI. Sorry Sorry
    • XXVII. 2NE1
    • XXVIII. Yoko Kanno
    • XXIX – Big Bang in Japan
    • XXX. Trax
    • XXXI. G-Dragon
    • XXXI. MBLAQ and BEAST
    • XXXIII. Fall of 2009
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    • 10 Kpop Artists Made for the U.S.
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    • Rock Kitaro’s Ghost Poem
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      • Dragon Ash – Episode 2
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      • Racetrack Road – Episode 1
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    • The Godfather’s Sword: Braden Pierce
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    • My Childhood with a Sociopath
    • The Killing on Corona Avenue
  • G-Force – Fan Fiction
    • Creating Worlds – Prologue
    • G-Force Chapter 1: Adoption
    • Chapter 2: Don’t F**K with Sailor Scouts
    • Chapter 3 – Sailor Jupiter Strikes
    • Chapter 4: Sub-Zero
    • Chapter 5: Love Bites and a Final Blow
    • Chapter 6: Majestic vs Ryu
    • Chapter 7 – G-Force in Full Effect
    • Chapter 8 – The Guy Who Beat Sailor Jupiter
    • Chapter 9 – G-Force vs. G-X
  • Rock’s Video Rants
  • 8 Things That Ruined Dating
    • 1. The Hook-Up Culture
    • 2. Tinder and Dating Apps
    • 3. Cat-Calling and Accusations
    • 04. Gynocentric Worship of Women
    • 05. The Weaponization of Women
    • 6. Rise of the Manosphere
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Final Parting Lessons to Help You Find a Wife on Dating Apps

Posted by Rock Kitaro on April 27, 2025
Posted in: About the Author. Tagged: bumble, christian husband, christian wife, Christianity, dating, dating advice, dating apps, dating coach, dating journal, dating life, dating sites, faith, Jehovah, Jesus Christ, love, Marriage, matchmaker, online dating, red pill, relationships, romance, sigma male, single men, single woman, singles ministry, tinder, women. Leave a comment

Allow me to conclude this 9-Part Online Dating series by passing down the main lessons I learned to find a beautiful down-to-earth Christian wife after failing in my two priors stints.

In my previous parts, I explained why a man like me had no choice but to go back to the dating apps because the culture ruined the old-school ways in which Men Approached Women. I explained why Dating Apps won’t work for most people, primarily because of egos and an overinflated sense of value.

I explained how I “changed up my strategy” by being my authentic self instead of relying too heavily on Red Pill advice that’s designed to attract the wrong kind of woman. I revealed which Dating Apps gave me the best chances. I divulged my failed matches and how it didn’t work out with some beautiful prospects.

And lastly, I talked about how I attracted and recognized my wife when I found her. It didn’t take years to figure out she was “the one”. It took courage to be open and honest with her, which allowed her to demonstrate the qualities I was looking for in a wife.

So, as I wrap up this series about Online Dating, I just wanted to hit on a few key points to pass down if you were my sister or brother and you’re still looking for a loving, devoted spouse.

What’s Discussed:

  1. Deductive Reasoning:
  2. Which Women Would I NOT Swipe on?
  3. 1. Smile in your pictures
  4. 2. Show off a little body
  5. 3. Be Yourself and Provide Info in Your Bio
  6. 4. Lead With Your Faith…
  7. 5. How to Demonstrate Interest Before the 1st Date
  8. The 1st Date: Public Place 
  9. How Much Money Should You Spend on a Dating Site?
  10. Patience is Golden:
  11. Prayer and Trust in God
  12. What it Means to Commit
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Online Dating: How to Recognize Wife Material When You See It

Posted by Rock Kitaro on April 22, 2025
Posted in: About the Author. Tagged: black couples, Black Families, christian women, Christianity, conservative men, dating, dating apps, dating appss, feminine women, husband material, Jesus Christ, kevin samuels, love, love is blind, Marriage, plain janes, proverbs 31, relationships, single men, single women, wedding, wife, wife material, women. Leave a comment

On April 5, 2025, I got married to a woman who I met through the Dating Apps. And at the wedding, one of her invites, a father-figure who I now call, “Mr. Ribs,” kept telling me, “You know what, young man! You found a good wife. And the Bible says, he who finds a good wife, found a good thing and favor with the lord.”

He said this, not once, but about three times…As if I didn’t know. As if I wasn’t already fully aware that I am blessed and found that rare Proverbs 31 woman…as if, it wasn’t until he pointed it out, that I went, “Oh my god…you’re right!”

No, no, no, ladies and gentlemen. I’m not a “throw caution to the wind” kind of guy. I’ve had plenty of opportunities to get with many woman over my 38 years of life, but I chose Julia. Why? Because I recognized she was “wife material”. Allow me to explain…

Points Discussed:

  1. A Man NEEDS to Be Respected
  2. Why “Plain Janes” Get Wife’d Up over Hot Girls:
  3. Marriage Will Be Difficult if YOU LET IT
  4. Will She Be a Good Mother?
  5. I Was Worried About Her Being Too Ugly
  6. She Acts like a Girly Girl
  7. She Treated Me Like a Husband BEFORE I Proposed
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The Sphere’s “Postcard from Earth” Insults God

Posted by Rock Kitaro on April 17, 2025
Posted in: About the Author. Tagged: "Postcard from Earth", Bible, Christ Memorial 2025, christian men, christian women, Christianity, Darren Aronofsky, Easter, faith, God, Jehovah's Witnesses, jesus, Jesus Christ, jw, las vegas, love, Postcard from Earth Review, religious diversity, religious holiday, the sphere, vegas attraction, Vegas Sphere, vegas strip. 1 Comment

On April 12, 2025, my new wife and I took to the Sphere in Las Vegas to check out Darren Aronofsky’s film, “Postcard from Earth.” My friends…this film was so BAD that I had no problems throwing away the $200 bucks I already paid for the tickets and just walked out.

Now, I know what you’re thinking. “Hang on, Rock. You left early. So, how can you say the film is terrible?”

Thing is, we weren’t the only ones. Lol, almost true the Scriptures about the “faithful remnant,” there were a few people leaving too. One couple, an older white pair, saw that we had the same facial expression and the husband said, “I saw all I needed to see.”

  1. What is the Las Vegas Sphere?
  2. The Splendor of God’s Creations
  3. April 12, 2025 was Christ’s Memorial Day
  4. “Postcard from Earth” Made the Earth out to be a Deity:
  5. Religious Diversity and Inclusion is Wicked:
  6. All Christians Aren’t The Same or Equal
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Online Dating Apps: How I Found and Vetted My Wife

Posted by Rock Kitaro on April 6, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: art of conversation, black couples, black culture, black women, christian men, christian women, Christianity, dating apps, dating coach, dating strategies, hip hop, INTJ Personality, Jesus Christ, just married, love, Marriage, married, match.com, newly weds, online dating, relationships. 6 Comments

Yesterday, on April 5th 2025…I got married to a woman I found on a Dating App! In my last two posts, I detailed the many failed attempts I had with women I met online. But by the grace of God…I knew Julia was wife material and it didn’t take years for me to figure it out. Let’s talk about it.

Hopefully this will encourage others to be patient, trust in God, and use your best discernment. I’m 38-years-old. Julia is 30. Good men and women are out there. We’re just rare and not many qualify for us, if I may be so bold to say so myself.

Points Discussed:

  1. Who is Julia – My Future Wife
  2. I Chose Not to Play Two Women:
  3. She’s Not a Stereotypical Black Woman
  4. I’m Not Compatible with A LOT OF WOMEN:
  5. Dating by Your Own Rules:
  6. The Art of Conversation:

Who is Julia – My Future Wife

I found Julia’s Match.com profile on May 5th 2024, while I was still talking to Crystal. If you’ll recall from my failed Matches, Crystal was the single mother who originally ghosted me, but came back after a month to see if she could make things work with me.

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My Last Failed Matches from Online Dating – Third Times the Charm!

Posted by Rock Kitaro on March 30, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: communication in relationships, consistent communication, dating, dating a single mom, dating journal, dating red flags, dating woes, ghosting, girls like bad boys, i was busy texts, love is blind, Marriage, motivational, not texting back, online dating, red pill, silent treatment, single moms, Single Mothers, single women, spiritual but not religious. 1 Comment

My previous post revealed my top four failed matches from 2014 and 2021. In this one, we’ll examine two more from 2024…just before I found “the one”.

Points Discussed:

  1. Crystal – Is It a Deal Breaker if We Don’t Go to Church
  2. Spiritual but Not Religious:
  3. My Stance on Single Mothers:
  4. Sonia – The Girl with Communications Issues
  5. The Tactic of Using Ugly Photos
  6. Inconsistent Communication:
  7. She Prefers Exciting Drama over Boring Stability

Just a reminder, with these failed matches posts…this isn’t exactly advice. It’s just the brutally honest look into the world of an average 9-5 Christian man who went looking to find a wife. Some of it is hysterical. But hopefully there are lessons you can gleam.

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My Failed Matches from Online Dating – Part 1: 2014 and 2021

Posted by Rock Kitaro on March 23, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating, romance. Tagged: christian dating, christian feminist, dating app realities, dating apps, dating disasters, dating stories, difficult women, faith and relationships, feminism, feminism and dating, love and lessons, modern dating, online dating, online dating fails, red pill content, single life stories. Leave a comment

Alright! So, this is the first of two posts detailing the top six ladies I met through Online Dating Sites and how I failed spectacularly. Spoiler alert, with some of them, I admit I may have been the problem. I’ll let you be the judge.

Points Discussed

  1. Cassandra: The Girl Who Bragged about Being Difficult
  2. Sydney: The Christian Who Has Gay Friends
  3. When Single Moms Raise Children to Take the Place of Their Spouses
  4. Aleah – The Feminist Christian
  5. When the Woman is More Masculine Than You:
  6. Patricia – The Girl Who Was “Too” Christian?
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Which Dating Apps Gave Me the Best Chance of Finding a Wife?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on March 16, 2025
Posted in: dating apps, online dating. Tagged: best dating site, bumble, christian dating, christian men, christian mingle, christian women, dating habits, eharmony, finding a wife, Jesus Christ, male attention, match.com, online dating, tinder, top dating apps. 2 Comments

At this point, there are over 1,500 Dating Apps. There are some that are just for black people. Some for people over 50. There are some that claim they’re just for Christians. Which one should you go with? Which one gives you the best chance to find that special someone?

Points Discussed:

  1. Bumble.com
  2. OKCupid and Plenty of Fish
  3. Tinder:
  4. E-Harmony and Christian Mingle – The Christian Sites
  5. Match.com

Allow me to begin by stating that I have NOT tried all or even most of the dating sites that are out there. In the points discussed above, you’ll the see the ones I have experience with and it makes sense, given my intentions.

Also! Keep in mind that Dating Apps are a business. A company called Match Group owns many of the platforms I’m going to discuss and they rake in over $3 billion in revenue. That business model works if people stay on the Apps and don’t make any connections. So, while it makes sense for people to say, “get off the dating apps”…I’m here to say that they do actually work. If you use them right.

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How I Changed Up My Online Dating Strategy and WON!

Posted by Rock Kitaro on March 9, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: casual dating, christian women, Christianity, dating, dating advice, dating apps, dating profile, finding a wife, intent to marry, matchmakers, modern women, online dating, online dating in 2025, online dating success, relationship, romance. 3 Comments

In my last post…I talked about why Online Dating didn’t work for me back in 2014. I made a lot of mistakes. I didn’t have the experience or the maturity. But ten years later…ya boy had learned. I was determined to do things a little bit different.

In this post, I’m going to discuss what I did differently in 2024 that led to me finally finding a wife. And if you stop reading and take nothing from this essay, take this: If you tell anyone that you’re online dating, they’re gonna give you advice about what to do or say. But at the end of the day, you have to be yourself.

I know dating coaches and bloggers don’t like to hear that. But you have to remember, you’re not trying to attract “just anyone”. You’re trying to attract the person who’s best suited to be your wife or husband. If you’re using it for hook-ups, “nothing serious,” or friends with benefits…this post isn’t for you.

Points Discussed:

  1. Dating with Intentions
  2. Single by Choice
  3. Why I Didn’t Ask for Advice
  4. My First Impressions of Online Dating in 2024
  5. The Profile Bio I Wrote to Attract a Mate
  6. Discipline with the Time Spent on Dating Sites:
  7. Should You Lower Your Standards?
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Why Dating Apps Will NOT Work for Most People

Posted by Rock Kitaro on March 1, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: big women, black women, christian woman, Christianity, dating, dating apps, dating culture, feminism, kendra g, kevin samuels, love, love is blind, men, modern woman, modern women, nice guys, online dating, pop the balloon, relationships, sigma empath, single woman, white knight, women. 3 Comments

People are starting to acknowledge that Dating Apps are a waste of time. And yet for a lot of us, we also feel like we got no choice. So, with this one, we’re gonna talk about why so many are struggling to find someone. Especially, if so many of us already are on them.

Points Discussed:

  1. Why I HATED Dating Apps to Begin With…
  2. I Used to be a Blue-Pilled White Knight:
  3. Overinflated Egos
  4. The Absence of a Standard:
  5. Are Women Primarily to Blame?
  6. The “Love is Blind” Comparison:
  7. It’s Women Who Ruined Things for Women
  8. Hypergamy and Greed

Heads up, this post is going to be mostly negative and sound like a lot of complaining. But as part of my 8-Part series on the topic, I’m just getting all the bad stuff out of the way so I can talk about what actually did work in helping me to find a wife.

Disclaimer, this is coming from an average 9-5 Christian man’s perspective. You might have had different experiences, so read at your own peril. Because what I’m about to say is gonna ruffle a lot of feathers, but these things needs to be said.

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Why I Had No Choice but to Return to Dating Apps

Posted by Rock Kitaro on February 17, 2025
Posted in: dating, dating apps, online dating. Tagged: bumble, church girls, dating culture, dating sites, eharmony, high school sweethearts, love, marraige, match.com, millennials, modern dating, modern men, modern relationships, modern women, okcupid, online dating, relationships, single women, tinder. 3 Comments

I used to be just like everyone else who said Dating Apps are a waste of time. I wrote a whole essay about how Tinder and Dating Apps have ruined dating for my generation. But then I had to come to terms with the fact, that a man like me had little choices left.

Points Discussed

  1. Why Men Don’t Chase Anymore
  2. High School Sweethearts:
  3. Trying to Find a Wife in College:
  4. Trying to Find a Wife in the Bar:
  5. Trying to Find a Wife in the Club:
  6. Trying to Find a Wife at Work
  7. Trying to Find Her at Church:
  8. Trying to Find Her at a Singles Mixer:
  9. Trying to Find Her at the Gym:

To begin with, allow me to say that I’m not a dating expert. I’m not a guru or a pick-up artist. You’re reading the words of an average-looking nine-to-five Christian man who’s never been on board with the hook-up culture or all these stupid dating rules the mainstream’s been promoting via music, TV shows, and social media.

Long story short…The dating sites weren’t the problem. I was. In this 8-part series, you’re going to see how I first tried dating apps 10 years ago in 2014 (age 28)…and it wasn’t until last year (2024, age 37) that I finally found a woman worth marrying. Allow me to explain.

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