Is the Absent Black Father Really an Issue?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on October 7, 2023
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“What have YOU done to combat fatherlessness?”

Recently, Larry Elder was on a podcast where that question was put to him. And his reaction was surprising, because usually he’s on-point and articulate with giving the obvious answer.

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Author Interview – “The Perennial War of Paramours” Action Thriller

Posted by Rock Kitaro on September 15, 2023
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Here, we sit down for a candid interview with the Author of a provocative action thriller called “The Perennial War of Paramours”.

Based in the Tampa Bay Area, Rock Kitaro reveals his inspiration for the story, how the culture of 2017 shaped his ideas, and a little bit about his background as author. It was really interesting to see how he started out as a Screenwriter and carried what he learned in the film industry over to the Publishing industry. Check him out!

Amazon Link for Print: “The Perennial War Paramours” at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CGL85JDM

Link for E-Book: https://www.amazon.com/Perennial-War-Paramours-Rock-Kitaro-ebook/dp/B0CGQB99LR

Link for Barnes & Nobles: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/books/1144002819

  • Intro Elevator Pitch – @00:05
  • The Inspiration for the Story – @02:47
  • Inspiration for the Secret Organization – @04:53
  • Character Breakdowns – @07:34
  • About the Author – @11:54
  • My Writing Process – @14:17
  • No Such Thing as an Original Story? – @17:28

NEW BOOK ALERT – “The Perennial War of Paramours” Action Thriller

Posted by Rock Kitaro on September 8, 2023
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Hey everyone! Check out my latest book available for Print and E-Book at Amazon. It’s an Action Thriller called “The Perennial War of Paramours!”

🔥🔥Join a secret society of powerful women who will stop at nothing to control the world 💪

But there’s a catch…In order to join this Society, you have to prove your loyalty by killing the man you love the most. ❤️😱 Could you do it?

Check out “The Perennial War Paramours” at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CGL85JDM

Does the Bible Make Women Feel Like They’re Insignificant?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 25, 2023
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This is inspired by a comment that was left on one of my videos and it really touched my heart. Because I think it speaks to why I’ve seen how some Women claim to want a traditional man who’s virtuous and spiritual…but not religious. 

I can’t help but think what they really mean is, “I want a man who has Christian values and believes in God but will ultimately choose to put my wants and desires over what the Bible says.” 

She commented in my video about the Christian Red Pill. It starts out as just a fun journey where I talk about how I discovered the Red Pill spaces back in 2016, but I conclude it with a lot of strong messages about how the Bible is my ultimate compass and how I call upon Men and Women to repent before it’s too late.  

Amara’s Comment to the video above:  

And this is one reason I don’t like church.  Church and male interpretation of Christianity has always been redpill.  I sat in church for 25 years and heard same crap.  That is why I left I got tired of hearing how insignificant I was as woman and how only important men are. 

I saw that and had to respond with: 

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The “Hot Guy” Intimidation Theory

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 17, 2023
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Hey gang! This one is just a light-hearted post about some theories I had regarding attraction, what Women say they want versus what they REALLY go for.

I want to make it clear that I could be wrong about EVERYTHING! These are just theories, not conclusions. Long story short, I believe that while a majority of women might SAY to themselves that they want the hot guy, the guy who’s over six feet tall, who’s dressed in a business suit and looks successful.

If that woman walked into a room where she sees the guy she “Claims” she wants, and also an ordinary guy who looks like John Krasinski’s character from “The Office”…even though she wants the Brad, she’s probably going to go for the Office looking guy, because she’s less intimidated by the Office guy who looks easier. By easy, I mean she can feel more relaxed and not worry about impressing him so much. He may end up in the “Friend zone”…or she may just settle for him, giving up on her romantic ambitions.

I have some provocative theories as to why this is happening, especially with my current generation. I also opine that Birth Control might have something to do with it based on a video I watched from Sydney Watson. Harkens back to a fun little essay I wrote about being a “Tall Guy” and never truly realizing that being tall was something desired. Good fun!

Should Christian Parents Let Their Children Decide?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 13, 2023
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Recently, the R&B singer Ne-Yo gave an interview where he criticized parents for letting their children determine what gender they are. He asked, “When did parents stop parenting? If you let a kid decide whether he wants to eat sugar all day, he’s going to eat sugar.”

There was some controversy on top of the controversy, because it looked like Ne-Yo put out an apology to the LGBT community…but then Ne-Yo put out a video clarifying his stance on the matter.

Points Discussed:

  • The Men Let this Happen – @1:30
  • Matriarchy in the Black Community – @2:41
  • Affirming a Child’s Gender – @3:36
  • Weak Men Make Terrible Leaders – @5:35
  • Choosing God over the Government – @9:12
  • The Beauty of Two Parents – @10:26
  • Spankings and Corporal Punishment – @12:06
  • Preparing Our Children for a Better World – @14:05

Here…I had some thoughts on the matter, pretty much calling out the elephant in the room. I think that sometimes, a lot of us don’t say anything because we feel like we don’t have a place to say anything. I don’t have children. So, what do I know? Right? Not to mention, the fact that so many companies are pushing the Diversity, Inclusion and Equity Ideology where it can be risky to speak the Truth.

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Being Confronted by the Church…

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 5, 2023
Posted in: About the Author, Christianity, religion. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . 3 Comments

Last night, I went to dinner with the leader of the church group under the pretense that he wanted to discuss a question I asked. Things didn’t go so great… 

Allow me to begin by laying out the sentiments of Romans Chapter 14. If you read that chapter, the jest of it is how Christians shouldn’t be quarreling over these differences of opinions when it comes to our faith or belief.  

Verse 13 says, “Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer, but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother.” 

What I love about that chapter is that 1) it takes the pressure off of you stronger Christians when it comes to trying so hard to make another Christian believe the way you believe. And 2) it should reduce/eliminate arguments between us as humans since the main person we need to answer to is God. 

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Black Men are Gay or in Prison? – Why Women Want to Believe This

Posted by Rock Kitaro on August 4, 2023
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Easy…Calm down. This one is just a casual conversation with some thought-provoking theories. I could be right or wrong. Let me know what you think.

A common complaint from a lot of ladies are that most of the Black Single men out there…we’re gay. To be honest, I’m not insulted or offended. To this day, some of my peers often assume that I’m gay because I haven’t had a date in some time. Not to mention, the way I talk, I smile a lot, I used to listen to kpop and Backstreet Boys, etc.

But more than that, I think I know why ladies would rather assume a man must be gay IF he’s not checking for her or approaching her in the gym or at the mall. Long story short, it’s about protecting their ego.

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Writing Fight Choreography for Fiction Novels – Can it Be Done?

Posted by Rock Kitaro on July 30, 2023
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I had to take a moment to say “thank you” to an author who truly inspired me to start writing when I was a teenager. Until I read “Kill the Shogun” by Dale Furutani…I never thought it was possible to write fight choreography.

When most people think of books, they usually think of the typical school classics. Hemingway, Dickens, Harper Lee, and Shakespeare. I remember having to read “Old Yeller” and “Charlotte’s Web” and “Moby Dick” and honestly…I didn’t enjoy them.

I liked the premise of the stories, but to actually have to read through the pages, it felt like work more so than entertainment. But when I was fifteen, a freshman in high school…I don’t remember how I stumbled onto “Kill the Shogun” by Dale Furutani. But I can tell you it definitely changed my life.

You see, ever since I was a kid, it’s like I was born for combat. Don’t get me wrong, I never liked hurting people. But martial arts and all skilled systems of fighting just spoke to me. From the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, to the Power Rangers, and Street Fighter…when I saw the moves, I was captivated and entranced.

I wasn’t a fan of gore and blood, but the choreography of it. I thought it was amazing, no different from a synchronized dance from Michael Jackson or crew of break dancers.

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Women Who Put Happiness Over God – Christian RED FLAG

Posted by Rock Kitaro on July 23, 2023
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🔥 This is a reaction to a woman who cheated on her husband down in Mexico and had the audacity to say “God sent this man” to help her cheat.

Fellas….FELLAS do not ignore these warning signs. Don’t let the hookup culture blind you from red flags! 🚩 Have the important conversations early on. Don’t fall into the trap of temporary pleasures. 💔

P.S. it’s not just Women who do this, but Men do it too. I mention one such example in my video. The only reason why I put “Women” instead of “People Who Put Happiness Over God” is for the algorithm and because when you highlight a specific gender, I notice people pay more attention. My audience is mostly male.

Points Discussed:

An Excuse for Everything – @2:47

They Care More about the Sisterhood than God – @4:15

Sometimes God Allows Us to Be Tested – @5:54

Rant About Being a Child of Divorce – @6:26

Don’t Covet Another Man’s Wife – @7:28

Happiness Can’t Be Trusted – @8:05

Sex Blinds You from the Red Flags – @9:44

Stay Away from Bad Friends – @11:04

Denying Yourself for Christ – @13:59