If you Google the show, the main criticism you’ll see is that the men of Love is Blind Habibi were supposedly “Toxic, Controlling, and Abusive” towards the women. We have to talk about it.

I had to give this point its own post because it’s a nefarious “high school” peer pressure tactic that’s been going on for years. What’s the tactic?

If you can convince people that something is bad, basically giving it a label like calling it racist, toxic or oppressive, it encourages others to 1) not follow that person’s example, 2) it discredits everything they do, and 3) it prevents others from openly liking/sharing/or commenting about how much they agree because they’re afraid of being labeled a bad person too.

Thus…it makes sense why they’d call the Men “toxic, controlling, and oppressive.” They don’t want other men to do what they did, and they want other women to believe that they’re being oppressed when really, they’re not.

For example, they absolutely hate it when housewives talk about how much pleasure they get from serving their men and taking care of the families over pursuing a career and being “strong and independent”. Let’s talk about it.

POINTS DISCUSSED

1. They Hate Having to Choose
2. Refusing to Accept Responsibility for Your Choices 
3. If You Choose the Man, You’re Rewarded with a Husband 
4. Do The Men Have to Change to Women? 
5. You Don’t Have to Change if You’re Already Prepared for Marriage:  
6. True Female Empowerment is a Mindset 
7. You Can’t Tell Her What to Do, She’s a Free Woman