Is it a deal-breaker if you found out that the guy you liked voted for Trump? Would you break up with him if he didn’t care one way or the other about political issues like Black Lives Matter, Social Justice or Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion?
I agree that a couple should be aligned in their core values for marriage. However, I’m concerned that thanks to Social Media and this Perennial High School Mentality where the “cool kids” are still telling the others what’s cool or not, Women are being shamed against dating the kind of men who are raised to protect and provide for them.
It’s very much like the ladies of England pinning a white feather on men who didn’t enlist to fight in WW I. They didn’t just do this to label those men as cowards, thus shaming men into signing up for a war they really didn’t want to fight in. They also did it to shame all the other women from mating these kinds of men.
POINTS DISCUSSED
- Why Should YOU Care? Her Body, Her Choice!
- A History of Women Being Used to Corrupt Men:
- Tolerance and Acceptance is a Lie
- Love is Not Blind, It’s Woke!
- If You Don’t Agree with Me, You Think I’m an Idiot
- The Results of Only Picking Liberal Leftists Men
Why Should YOU Care? Her Body, Her Choice!
“So, what, Rock! Her body, her choice! You’re married now. So, why do you care!?”
Well…plainly put, I believe women have more power than they think. A lot of them are not only being used, but they’re deliberately trying to create a god-less nation in favor of one that worships women.
Why? Because if you’re a man who prioritizes how God calls us to live, then you aren’t going to buy into all the Woke Feminist ideals and repeat chants like, “The Patriarchy is Bad.”
Because according to the Bible…the patriarchy is divine order. Men are supposed to be in charge. A lot of Women who grew up in the church know this, which is why they think it’s a red flag for a man to be a “Godly Man”.
These Scriptures back up and support everything I’m saying:(Ephesians 5:22-24, 1 Timothy 3: 1-13, 1 Corinthians 14:34, 1 Timothy 2:12) Which means, it isn’t just my opinion. This is what God is telling us.
If it’s your first time reading them, it’s okay to feel conflicted, frustrated, and a little upset, especially after the Culture’s been preaching something else for years. But if you call yourself a Christian, this is where you need to take a stand, where you must make a choice.
You either believe and obey…or reject them and be destroyed with the rest of the wicked when Christ returns. You can’t serve the World and God.
I’m sorry to be so blunt. But I think enough Christians sugarcoat and put it lightly, when really…this is as serious as it gets. Our ego wants to hear words like acceptance and tolerance and “everyone deserves love”…but really, we should be working to adopt a more meek and humble attitude, letting go of all entitlement about what we think we deserve.
So, how do I think Liberals are using Sex to Create a Godless Nation?
A History of Women Being Used to Corrupt Men:
If Women are responsible for picking and choosing who they procreate with, and all they want are the liberal leftist men who don’t believe in God, they’ll influence Spiritually weak men to choose women over God the same way…
- Adam chose to follow Eve and eating the fruit instead obeying God
- Solomon chose to follow his pagan wives into worshiping false gods
- The same way Balaam advised the Moabite King to use Pagan women to invite the Israelite men to sacrifice to false gods (Numbers 25).
The children then created from these ungodly couples will go on to produce a generation that also doesn’t believe in God.
Many might “say” they believe. They’ll even get tattoos and wear the cross around their necks. But if you asked them how God feels about homosexuality, they either couldn’t tell you, or they’ll demonstrate that they fear human beings more than they fear God.
Don’t believe me? Just take a look at the black communities sprinkled throughout America. People often blame the black-on-black violence, the illiteracy rate, and teen pregnancies on the breakdown of families, but more than that, it’s the absence of faith in God.
It’s demonstrated in the way Single Mothers put greater faith in the Welfare System, their careers, education, money, and even so-called “bad boys” who they’re hoping can protect and provide because they fit the mold of what they think “Masculinity” is.
“Rock, you seem to be putting a lot of responsibility on Women. It’s the Men’s fault for not sticking to their beliefs!”
I agree.
Adam should’ve said no to Eve. Solomon should’ve never married his pagan wives. The men of Israel should’ve rejected the Moabite women who enticed them to worship false gods.
All men should prioritize how God calls us to live, over what women say they want. But what happens when you meet those Godly men? Do you choose them? Or do you reject them in favor of the ones who aren’t so religious?
Tolerance and Acceptance is a Lie
“Hang on, Rock! That’s not true! The virtues of religion didn’t make us great. Diversity, tolerance, and acceptance made us great!”
Diversity, tolerance, and acceptance is a lie that never was. It’s the wool being put over your eyes to hide the fact that only the popular kids (celebrities and influencers) get to decide what’s acceptable and what isn’t.
If you yourself truly believed in Diversity and Acceptance, if you truly believed that this is what really made us great…then why hate Trump Supporters and Conservatives? In fact, the question of whether you’d date a Trump Supporter or a Conservative wouldn’t even be an issue.
“Hang on, Rock! It sounds like you aren’t accepting of liberals either.”
When it comes to dating them…that’s correct. The difference is, I’m not claiming that I am. I’m not virtue-signaling or Grandstanding so that the world (humans) can see me as “cool” and then accept me.
That’s not to say I don’t care what humans think about me. I do. I’d be a sociopath not to. I like making people smile. It makes me feel good to uplift and entertain others.
I simply care more about what God thinks about me.
Love is Not Blind, It’s Woke!
So, let’s back up for a second and examine what’s happening.
Recently, “Love is Blind” contestant Sara Carlton left her groom at the altar because of his views on Trump, BLM, LGBTQ and the vaccine.
Her man, Ben, wasn’t ultra conservative. He wasn’t a Trump supporter. But he was a church-goer. And when it came to the political issues, it wasn’t that he disagreed with Sara, but that he didn’t take a stronger stance in support of her issues.
Seriously, Ben was probably the best example of everything Liberals say they want in a man who’s tolerant and accepting. Even when he was meeting Sara’s Lesbian sister, Ben made it clear that he was choosing to accept their LGBTQ lifestyle over how God calls us to live.
But that wasn’t enough for Sara. The message sent was clear: “If you want to be with me, you must abandon your faith and all your principals to follow me, to agree with me, to support and back all my causes.”
Sara wasn’t the only one from that season. Even with the couple Devin and Virginia, you had Devin coming from a conservative church-going family while Virginia made it clear that most of the people in her family voted Democrat. She even used the stupid plantation logic of, “we’re black. That’s what we do.”
Of course, this isn’t just happening on reality TV shows. Ever since Lady Gaga, Glee, and Big Bang Theory hit the airways, women have increasingly bought into the “love is love” and “accept everyone” mentality. Which means, rejecting the Christian value of “not everyone will be saved.” Or rather, they selfishly adopt the notion that Christ should conform to our lives, instead of conforming their lives to Christ.
God loves us all, yes. Everyone is welcomed to the Kingdom of Heaven, absolutely. But it’s sort of like the library where everyone is welcome, but there’s a sign on the door that says, “Must wear shirt and shoes to enter.”
Well…according to 1st Corinthians 6:9-11, in order to enter the Kingdom of Heaven, you can’t be a drunkard, worship idols, cheat on your wife, or indulge in homosexuality.
If you didn’t know…now you do. And for those of us who did already know, those people are pressured by women like Sara and Virginia sweep their Christianity under the rug…just like Ben did when he was confronted with the choice accepting Sara’s lesbian sister.
Outside of the show, studies have come out where it’s plain to see most young people straight out of high school and college vote overwhelmingly Democrat with left-leaning views.
However, of the young people who tend to have more conservative views, men far outnumber the women.
Melanie King breaks it down in her video below.
There’s a saying, that the pendulum shifts as people grow up, however.
With the exception of those coming from strong conservative and/or Christian families, they say that young people in general tend to start out with a liberal outlook on the world. But as they go through their twenties and gain more experience with how the world truly is, that pendulum shifts where people start to lean more conservative.
Furthermore, generally a lot of women who are already married tend to lean more Republican if they have steady hard-working husbands. The thought being, “they don’t need to depend on the government to provide, protect and solve their problems for them because their husbands are already fulfilling that role.”
But there’s something else at work that prompted this essay. An underlying truth that I don’t think I’ve seen anyone hit on quite yet. I was watching Better Bachelor’s video on the topic where he goes into details.
A lot (not all) of Women are up-front about their politics and prioritize their political agendas, almost as if those things are more important than his ability to protect, provide, love, and stay faithful to her.
They refuse to date someone who doesn’t share their outlooks. You can’t just be apathetic or “Apolitical” you have to actively support the same causes or else it’s a red flag or a deal breaker.
“But Rock! It’s like that bride on Love is Blind said! It’s important that they’re on the same wavelength! A marriage isn’t going to work if they don’t see eye to eye on these important issues.”
I completely agree. As a child of divorce and having been raised by two sets of parents with different ideologies, I know very well how important it is that both the mother and father see the eye on key issues like race, culture, and religion.
But here, I’m going to drop a couple of Short Reels. I’d like you to take a gander and see if you can figure out what’s going on.
There are some commenters who wrote, “if the cameras were off, they’d make different choices.”
Maybe…but I have another theory in addition to all that.
If You Don’t Agree with Me, You Think I’m an Idiot
I think the main reason why Liberals don’t want to date Conservative Men, is because deep down, they know that he probably sees her as an idiot. If not an idiot, someone who’s just “wrong”.
Think about it. Take a woman like Sara who deeply worships her social justice causes and believes BLM and George Floyd are super important issues. Being with a man like Ben who doesn’t think those things are that important…it’s gotta weigh on her a bit.
“If he thinks those things aren’t important, does he think I’m being silly because I do?”
More importantly, it’s like this…if I told you that Jesus Christ was real, but you’re an Atheist who thinks there is no god, one of us thinks they’re right and the other is wrong.
One of us must be smarter or wiser than the other. This shouldn’t be a problem. Intelligence is relative and it shouldn’t come as a surprise that people would be smarter or dumber than you.
In fact, an awesome piece of advice I got in my 20s was, “if you think you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room. You should always seek out those better than you so you can learn from them and grow.”
That requires acknowledging that you’re not as smart as you think you are, and that’s okay.
The problem as it relates to dating, is similar to my post about the Pop the Balloon show. It seems a lot of women are being conditioned to care way too much about being equal to or superior than men.
The moment something about a man makes her feel inferior, instead of being inspired to get up to his level…they either:
- Make him out to be the villain with trumped up charges on his character
- Chop down his ego so his self-esteem is down where you think you are
- Diminish his Wins so he doesn’t think he’s done anything great
For a Liberal Woman to try and date a Conservative Man who favors God, Family, and Country over Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion, I think she knows that guy is probably going to think she’s foolish and her ego can’t handle it.
It’s not the same, the other way around. At least not for Conservative Christians.
You see, Liberals are ever changing. Their morality, standards, and values are based on feelings and arbitrary opinions that can all be manipulated, persuaded, and influenced by outside forces.
A Conservative’s values, by definition, doesn’t change. His standards, morality, and duty are rooted in either traditional values, or by his faith in a code of ethics. Like God’s word the Bible.
So, to sum up this point. I think Liberals and Leftists simply can’t handle being with someone who thinks they are better than them. Even if it’s on a subconscious level.
“Are you trying to tell me it wouldn’t bother you if someone walked around and acted like they were better than you because of their beliefs and worldviews?”
NO! The priority is what God thinks about me. Not to mention, you’re talking to someone who’s open to the fact that other people might indeed be better than me in some way shape or form, and that’s okay! I either take it as inspiring, a challenge accepted to prove them wrong, or I just accept that they’re better in an area that I don’t care about improving in.
Even when it comes to my Christianity and faith, I’ve encountered PLENTY of Christians who gave me the impression that they thought they were more Christian than I was. And that’s alright. Romans 14 teaches us that we will all be judged by God as individuals based on our own convictions.
So, while I might not be as devoted as my brother is when it comes to his faith, God can see my heart and discern whether I am doing my best or not. My best is not my brother’s best, or your best. Honesty and self-reflection are the keys to that.
The Results of Only Picking Liberal Leftists Men
So…in conclusion, I assert that the mark of a wise woman is her Christian Conservative values. I say people are “wise” depending on their intentions.
If it’s your intent to enjoy as much pleasure, pursue money, materialistic things and care more about boss baes, Hollywood, Disney, Marvel, and all the fandoms pushing Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion…then yeah, being a Christian isn’t wise.
But if you want a long-lasting marriage, a Proverbs 31 woman, a man who will honor his vows in marriage and bend over backwards to provide, sacrifice and protect his family, it’d be wise if you submit to God’s word the Bible, repent, and embrace Christianity.
Of course, that’s not to say Liberal Women don’t have stable families and raise children. But Ofc. Tatum pointed out something in his break down of the Woke Bride (Sara) who left the Groom for not supporting BLM.
In it, Tatum asserts that this will be the same type of woman who goes out in the dating market and finds a guy who tells her everything she wants to hear. He’ll claim to support everything she supports and shares her interests just to bed her down and waste three-six years of her life without ever marrying this girl.
And then, she’ll likely go the route of Tomi Lahren and call all men trash, when she had a good man who would’ve married her and remained faithful to her for the rest of his life. And it wouldn’t be just because that man loves the woman and the children she gave him, but because he honors the vow he made before God.
Yes, Christians make mistakes and there are plenty of men who stumble and fall short when it comes to adultery and divorce. I’m not diminishing that or making light of it in the slightest. But at least they know they’ll have someone to answer to.
With liberal men and Atheists…they’re not going to jail for cheating on you. They’re going to take advantage of the liberal, sexual revolution non-traditional parameters you set, which includes having a roster of women who he doesn’t consider cheating on because he didn’t explicitly say ya’ll were exclusive.
Other than you and your community going out of your way to make life a living hell for him, who cares? He’s on to the next girl like this guy…
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