Yesterday, on April 5^th 2025…I got married to a woman I found on a Dating App! In my last two posts, I detailed the many failed attempts I had with women I met online. But by the grace of God…I knew Julia was wife material and it didn’t take years for me to figure it out. Let’s talk about it.

Hopefully this will encourage others to be patient, trust in God, and use your best discernment. I’m 38-years-old. Julia is 30. Good men and women are out there. We’re just rare and not many qualify for us, if I may be so bold to say so myself.

Points Discussed:

1. Who is Julia – My Future Wife
2. I Chose Not to Play Two Women:
3. She’s Not a Stereotypical Black Woman
4. I’m Not Compatible with A LOT OF WOMEN:
5. Dating by Your Own Rules:
6. The Art of Conversation:

Who is Julia – My Future Wife

I found Julia’s Match.com profile on May 5^th 2024, while I was still talking to Crystal. If you’ll recall from my failed Matches, Crystal was the single mother who originally ghosted me, but came back after a month to see if she could make things work with me.