In my last posts, I talked about the differences between Love is Blind Habibi and its American series. I debunked the claims of how the men are all “toxic and controlling.” It’s all about the power of choice and how some people hate that they’re simply forced to choose.
In my final post on the series, we’re going to examine the top three couples where bloggers absolutely hated the men. And of course, the reason why is because they stand on business. Allow me to explain.
Points Discussed:
- Ammar and Karma – She Chose Belly-Dancing over Marriage
- How Liberal Parents Corrupt their Children in Dating:
- Hot Women Live in Different Realities
- Mido and Nour – The Woman Who Wants to be Served but not Serve
- When You Lie About Being Attracted to The Person…
- Men Have the Power to Walk Away
- Simo and Hajar – He Ditched Her on the Honeymoon
- Dropping the Act Once You Get What You Want
- Real Relationships Aren’t Games – To the Ladies Who Love Drama
Ammar and Karma – She Chose Belly-Dancing over Marriage
First up, we have the couple where a woman chose bellying dancing over marriage to a solid ten out of ten guy. An inspiration to feminists everywhere. This is the woman who constantly made a point to say, “I’m a free woman!”
…which is about as childish as telling a cop, “I’m a free woman!” as you’re escorted from an establishment because you’re dressed like a stripper. Also reminds me of an essay I wrote called, “everyone wants to be married, but they don’t want to accept the conditions of it.”
Ammar was a 30-year-old good looking stud of a dentist, and Karma was a beautiful 29-year-old whose occupation escapes me…because what she emphasized more than anything was that she’s big into theater as an actress and as a dancer.
From the very first date, Ammar fell in love with Karma’s personality, her sweet and soft femininity. The only thing, the ONE THING he did not like about her, was that Karma liked to go dancing.
As I mentioned in my last post, Ammar could’ve lied about this. Like American men, Ammar could’ve kept this to himself and strung her along for bedroom fun all while knowing he has no intentions of marrying her. But no…Ammar told her the truth, and for this, women called him “toxic and controlling.”
To her credit, in the beginning, Karma wasn’t unkind or flat-out defiant about it. She listened respectfully but expressed how belly-dancing wasn’t just a hobby, it was her passion. It’s how she felt alive.
So yeah…that’s a tough one. As a fellow artist and an author, I can see how upsetting it’d be if the girl I was dating told me that she wanted me to stop writing, when Writing is and has always been my passion, and how I breathe.
But therein lies the rub. We all have to make a choice. The only one you can control is yourself. If you choose to do what someone else asks, that person isn’t “toxic and controlling” for giving you that choice.
Instead, it’s actually controlling of YOU to shame, guilt, and insult THEM into letting go of their preferences.
In the end…as you can see in the clip above, Karma chose dancing over marriage with Ammar. With a polite smile, Ammar extended his hand to shake hers. Karma wanted a hug and a kiss, but Ammar politely said, “No, sorry. A kiss is for someone close. We’re not close anymore.”
Ammar didn’t flip over the table. He didn’t curse her out. But with an incredulous smile, he did tell Karma what me and my wife were thinking. “You gave up love for this trivial issue.”
Now granted, I wouldn’t go so far as to say it’s a trivial issue. I think that’d be a bit dismissive of how much Dancing means to her. But the sentiment is still rings true. The clear takeaway is that Karma thinks “dancing is more important than marriage to Ammar.”
And yes, for the Feminists, I can see how they’d interpret it as, “No! Karma is really saying that her FREEDOM is more important than marriage to Ammar.”
And what’s crazy, is in the next scenes, Netflix producers have Karma dancing to triumphant music as if it’s this great and wonderful thing that she chose her own passions and freedom over marriage. Almost as if Netflix wants the audience to think that freedom and personal passions are better than family and marriage.
I can understand how a certain type of woman and clearly all Feminists would see Karma as an inspirational hero. A story like hers gives strength to millions. I respect every woman’s right to choose what they want out of life and go for it.
At the same time, you have to accept the consequences, the results of your choices. Let’s see Netflix keep up that same triumphant music when she’s alone in her 40s wondering who’s going to take care of her when she’s older.
Let’s see them keep up that same energy and attitude when they’re wondering why all the guys their age are going after the women who used to be the same age as her when she passed up on Ammar.
No, I don’t wish the worse for her. No, I won’t laugh or goat and say I told you so.
I’m only encouraging people to think of the big picture. Belly dancing and living “your best life” sounds great when you’re in your twenties. But if you aren’t prepared to keep that same energy for the rest of your life, then you’ve squandered your youth, beauty, and fertility and it’s nobody’s fault but your own.
Not society. Not men. Not the government’s. It’s your fault. Even the ones who want to use the excuse of, “I was lied to!”
Yeah, what did you do when you encountered men who told you the truth? Did you listen? Did you embrace the truth? Or did you demonize them, called them misogynistic and tried to get them canceled?
And just as I suspected, when I saw the Reunion Episode, instead of accepting said responsibility, Karma blamed Ammar for his rigid traditional ways.
How Liberal Parents Corrupt their Children in Dating:
On the Reunion Episode, Ammar was pressed about his decision to refuse marrying a woman who wants to keep Belly-Dancing.
The hosts expressed, as many in America did, “Don’t you think that’s controlling?”
Seriously, if you click on the hyperlink above, you’ll find comment after comment of women praising Karma and claiming she “dodged a bullet” by avoiding Ammar.
They say it’s contradicting to want a traditional wife because he’s on a non-traditional show trying to find a wife. They act like Karma was abused and mistreated. And why? Because a man chose to stand by what he will and won’t accept?
When asked if he thought he was controlling, Ammar answered, “No, I don’t think that’s controlling. I think that’s leadership.”
BOOM! That’s it! Seriously, when women say they want their husbands and boyfriends to be leaders, what do you think that looks like?
Ammar explained that it’s part of his culture for men to lead and protect their wives. He says that no man in his culture would want his wife to be belly-dancing.
That’s when Karma argued, “No! I think you’re generalizing. You can’t say all men wouldn’t want me to belly dance because I know men who would.”
Karma explains that her parents and all her brothers are part of the same culture as Ammar and they’re very supportive of her lifestyle and her decision to belly-dance. Thus, they support her choice in picking dancing over the husband who they perceive as “controlling”.
This is how parents and family members who enable women like this set them up for failure. Because, like Karma, they assume that if a man’s not on board with her lifestyle, he’s toxic and controlling. And oddly enough, the kind of man who will be fine with her dancing in front of men won’t be the man kind of man who’s faithful, godly, and will prioritize the needs of his family before himself.
“Rock! How can you say that? By allowing Karma to dance, he is…”
I said he’ll prioritize her “needs”. Not wants. I encourage you to check out this video that talks about the psychology, the gift and curse of women who are beautiful.
Hot Women Live in Different Realities
Long story short, beautiful women like Karma often go most of their lives surrounded by people who lie and tell them what they want to hear, either due to desires or agendas. So, when she encounters a G like Ammar who isn’t going to throw his standards out the window just because she looks good, Karma can’t help but see him a toxic.
Due to her experience and upbringing, it doesn’t make sense that a man wouldn’t accept her doing whatever she wants, because she’s not used to that. She’s been living in a “parallel universe” as the video says.
Due to the “hook up culture,” a lot of modern ladies are like this. Hence, parents have failed them.
No lie, we just finished Love is Blind Japan, where the woman Midori was having doubts about marrying a guy name Wataru. It wasn’t until Midori met with her mother that the mom gave her a reality check and said: “Do you think you’re better than him? That’s not the kind of daughter we raised.”
Midori laughed because she knows her mother was right. They ended up getting married and now have kids together.
It also reminds me of a trend of reels where fathers are treating their daughters to high expensive lifestyles and travels with the caption, “Showing my daughter the world so she’s not impressed by your dusty sons.”
On the surface, that might sound like an awesome father taking care of his daughter. But if you raise your daughter with that kind of attitude, expecting high worldly and materialistic standards (princess treatment), you’re limiting her to a ridiculously small pool of men who may not be good for her.
It also put an enormous amount of pressure on her to become the kind of highfalutin woman who becomes a slave to fashion, trends, and prioritizing her appearance or social status, all just to qualify for that small pool of men. Doesn’t have to be that way.
If you raise her to be kind, fit, cooperative and godly, she doesn’t need to be a Kardashian.
And if you DO think you’re raising her to be a godly woman, then you as a Parent should know prioritizing belly dancing, and the pursuit of worldly pleasures and materialistic things over marriage and family is not that. Don’t believe me?
Just check out Proverbs 31. Check out 1 Peter 3:1-6. Check out how God calls other Women to train up the younger women at Titus 2 3-5.
Titus 2 3-5 in particular says: “teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. 4 Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.”
If you asked a modern woman which would she rather be, would she say “Kind” or a “Bad B****?”
Granted, Ammar and Karma aren’t Christians. But you can see the parallels with what Ammar is saying and what Christians have to deal with.
How many times have we heard, “Well, I know friends who are Christians and they don’t see anything wrong with having sex before marriage.” (1 Corinthians 7 says otherwise)
Or… “But I’m Christian and I got no problem with gay marriage. I encourage people to do whatever makes them happy.” (1 Corinthians 6:9-11 says otherwise)
Even if you were to say, “Okay, I hear what other people are doing. But what does God say about it?”
They’d still hit you with, “God would understand. It’s the times we live in.”
And that’s the test every Christian has to overcome, dealing with people like Karma who claim to be what you are and yet shames you for walking the walk.
“Well, how come he can’t just go along with how…”
Stop. If you want to reject how God calls us to live, just say that.
If you don’t think it’s fair, your problem isn’t with me or Men, it’s with God. And I’d encourage you to humble yourself and obey like a child to a parent, instead of with the entitlement of a king or queen, acting like you deserve something. (Matt 18:1-5)
If you don’t trust that man’s leadership and authority, then don’t marry him. And if you only PICK the men who lets you do whatever you want and never says no…that’s on you, ladies. You can blame men for not stepping up to lead all you want, but the truth is, you rejected men like Ammar who do have the courage to say no.
Mido and Nour – The Woman Who Wants to be Served but not Serve
The situation between Nour and Mido is the perfect example of a man not putting up with just any behavior, regardless of how fine she looks.
Mido was a 39 year-old a real estate agent and Nour was a 29-year-old model.
Being that Nour was a model, by her own admission, she’s used to being pampered and treated like a princess. In the very first episode she claimed money and being able to pay for her lifestyle was important. She even bashed Feminism because she wants to be taken care of.
I respected the honesty. She has every right to go for what she wants. And traditionally…there’s nothing wrong with what she wants in a man. But will she let a man have traditional expectations of her?
That’s a serious question. I’ve never been one to say, “what do you bring to the table?” But ad nauseum, I’ve been trying my best to preach to ladies that when it comes to marriage, “your body isn’t the only thing we’re looking for.”
When ladies say “I offer my time, my effort, my energy…” they mean, their bodies.
Halle Berry is just one of many examples. In the 90s, almost every man unanimously considered her the most beautiful woman on the planet. And even she was divorced because her husband, David Justice, couldn’t see her as a mother. She didn’t cook or clean.
Earlier this year, I wrote about a man from Love is Blind doing the same thing. He didn’t say the woman wouldn’t be a good mother. But that he just couldn’t “see her as a mother.”
Which means you have to bring more than just a hot body to the table. If you believe you’d make a good mother and a wife, you have to demonstrate it! It’s not difficult. Ask yourself what you wished your mother would’ve been like for you…and do that.
Speaking of looks…
When You Lie About Being Attracted to The Person…
When Mido and Nour began spending time at the retreat, you could tell there was an awkwardness between them.
Plainly put, love isn’t blind. Looks do matter. You have to be physically attracted to the person you’re with, regardless of how much you love their personality.
Nour was taller than Mido. When they first met each other in person, she was nice enough about it, but she clearly wasn’t attracted to him. See clip Above.
That should be okay. The problem is when people lie to themselves and the other person about being attracted to them.
This is a huge problem with the Love is Blind series. When they do that “first reveal” and the couple get to see each other for the first time…they know the cameras on. Millions are watching. You don’t want to come off looking shallow, rude, or mean. So, they fake how attracted they are to the other person. And if you read my Part 1, then you know why.
The truth is, when you’re deeply infatuated with a person and find them attractive, the small things don’t bother you. You’re more tolerant towards the quirks and annoying behaviors that would normally have you “calling it a night.”
FB Capital has released two videos PROVING how much women stick with men and put up with horrible behavior…IF they’re hot!
“But Rock! Men do that too. Men stick with hot women even if women treat them like crap.”
Sure, SIMP men do. So, put a pin in that because you’re about to prove my point.
When you ARE NOT attracted to that person and you’re forcing yourself to be with them anyway, then every little thing bugs you. Their interests, the way they talk, everything just disgusts you to no end. Like…ugh!
That’s what I saw from Nour. And eventually…this is what Mido saw too when the couples all got together, and for the first time all the women were able to see the other men they were speaking to in the Pods.
This is where people are good about gas-lighting you and telling you that it’s all in your head when it isn’t.
When Nour saw Chafic, the two hit it off and Nour was suddenly more bubbly, talkative, laughing and flirtatious. Mido observed this! It would later come out that Chafic and Nour had seen each other before on Instagram.
Now, maybe you could use that to justify why Nour was more comfortable with Chafic…but from Mido’s POV, it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t feel good. And did he get any sympathy? Any understanding?
Well…if you Google “Love is Blind Mido” right now, the top Reddit Post you’ll see is how he’s “exhibits clear signs of insecurity, immaturity, spite, and hostility.”
And thanks to the gynocentric world we now inhabit, Mido has faced all kinds of cyberbullying and had to issue forced apologies.
Apologies for what? What was his crime?
Well, after a full day of trying to get some kind of chemistry going with Nour, the next morning Mido told her exactly how he felt (which is everything I just pointed out), and instead of sitting there and listening to her reasons/explanations/justifications, he just took his microphone off and left.
That’s right. Instead of sitting there and listening to her side of the story, Mido didn’t want to waste his time. He just walked away from her.
Men Have the Power to Walk Away
“That’s bad, Rock! She listened to him. So, he should have listened to her.”
Says who? Where is it written? What law did he break by choosing to not sit there and listen to her reasons?
“Well, what if she offered up a good explanation that could’ve convinced him to stick around and give her another chance?”
Is that what you think would’ve happened? You honestly think that Nour would’ve responded with kindness, compassion, and appealed to him to give her a second chance?
Or would she go on the defensive, turn it around on him and make him out to be jealous and insecure?
That’s what I appreciated about the Mido situation and it’s what you and every man should learn, women too. You don’t have to put up with that crap. You can always walk away from a bad deal.
I don’t care how fine they are. I don’t care if it makes you look bad to your friends, family, or the sisterhood. They’re not the ones who have to put up with the person. You are. You have the power to walk away.
Remember your little point about how, “Men do it too! Men stick with hot women even if they don’t treat them right!”
That’s not what Mido did. That’s not what Ammar did. And, as we’re going to discuss…that’s not what Simo did either.
And that’s why Western ladies hate these guys. Because someone put it in their minds that Men are supposed to just stick around and put up with bad behavior, all under the guise of “accepting you however you are.”
And if they don’t, then it’s because they’re not “man enough to handle you.”
It’d be one thing if you were married, or spent years with an individual, going through thick and thins, ups and downs and throughout it all, you always had each other’s back with love and support.
But ladies…if we’re only just starting to date, if we only just started talking and you’re acting like this, I’m gone. I loved that Mido took off his mic and didn’t waste any more time.
Besides, it’s not like Nour was torn to pieces over it. She almost seemed relieved as she grabbed her book and went to read on the beach.
Remember my point about their “intentions” in the last post. Well, even after Mido left Nour, for some strange reason Nour stuck around with the show and pretty much kept exerting herself in everyone else’s business.
Why would she do that? What was her purpose of still being on the show if her fiance had already left?
And what’s crazy is that Youtube keeps recommending Love is Blind Habibi videos to me, and almost all of them have titles like, “she took them down!” Clearly the Feminists and Liberal women love and praise Nour. But so, what?
Big picture, if you’re goal is to get married to a man, how is the respect and favor of Feminists and other women going to get you what you want?
Thus, bringing me to the last couple of Hajar and my boy Simo…aka, Jafar as I call him…
Simo and Hajar – He Ditched Her on the Honeymoon
When you first see Simo in the pods, not going to lie, he came across as an asshole the way he interacted with the ladies. I’m all for being up-front and honest, but he was way too blunt with very little charm.
But as the show progressed, more and more, my wife and I started to have a tremendous amount of respect for the guy, and he turned out to be my personal favorite. Allow me to explain.
From the beginning, Simo makes it clear that he’s not here to make friends, he’s not out for clout or attention…he’s here to find a wife.
Men with strong intentions like that aren’t going to waste time beating around the bush, or tolerating things they don’t like, personalities they can’t stand, or habits they don’t want to deal with. Which honestly…kind of reminds me of myself.
That being said…not going to lie. Simo “seemed” like he wasn’t a friendly person. Even with the other guys, he had no problem voicing opinions that rubbed others the wrong way. Again, he’s not there to make friends and establish connections with other men. He wants a wife.
In the beginning, there’s a short montage of Simo rapidly going through dates with women. The ones with the attitude, masculine aggression, and feminist attitudes, he quickly moves on from them.
Then, he met Hajar.
At first, I liked Hajar. She came off as soft, feminine, down to earth, and traditional the way I imagine any conservative Muslim would want in their wife.
When Simo connected with her, he was all smiles as he got to know her in the pods. That was, until she let her true colors show with a slip of the tongue. As soon as she said it, my wife and I lowered our brows, and Simo was not messing around.
He immediately responded with, “You were perfect up all until this moment.”
What did Hajar say? Well, when asked about how she’d spend her bachelorette party, she expressed how she’d want to go out in Miami and have “one last taste of cake before having to stick to a diet”. See clip below
That might sound like no big deal, but we know…we know what she’s talking about. And it was surprising to hear from a woman in the Middle East. Here in casual sex America, Men can expect that kind of response. Doesn’t mean we like it.
If that happened on the American series, I’m sure most guys would laugh it off like it’s no big deal. But again, that’s what I appreciated about the Arab Men. There’s no pretending. If the men don’t like something, they make it known right away.
Simo didn’t dump her. He didn’t call her a whore. He didn’t raise his voice. He simply expressed his displeasure and disappointment. And the way Hajar responded to his displeasure leads to a very important lesson.
Dropping the Act Once You Get What You Want
When Simo expressed his disappointment, Hajar apologized and responded with sadness, regret, and remorse.
“But, Rock! She has nothing to apologize for! It’s not her fault that Simo got all butt-hurt by what she said!”
And yet, Hajar chose to apologize anyway. Why do you think she did that? Seriously, if you think she has nothing to apologize for, why do you think Hajar chose to apologize? You can’t gloss over that.
With tears in her eyes, Hajar apologized again and again. They ended that date on a bad note, and it wasn’t clear if Simo was even going to give her a second chance.
He did give her a second chance, however, and you could see how much effort Hajar put to appease him.
“Appease him!? Why should she appease him?”
It’s obvious. Remember my first post about Goals and Intentions? What do you think was more important to Hajar? Winning an argument and standing up for her Feminist freedom to have fun one last time? Or getting engaged?
It was clear (see above clip). Hajar was willing to do whatever it took to secure Simo as her fiancé. And to be honest, she had our respect. My wife and I were on Hajar’s side, and we disliked Simo for not forgiving her as quickly as we would’ve liked.
However…once Simo did ask her to be his wife, Hajar became a completely different person. And it broke my heart to see it.
As soon as they were engaged and arrived at the retreat getaway as new couples, Hajar shed the loving, submissive, traditional woman appearance and donned the entitled, stuck-up, boss babe American personality that traditional men have grown to detest (see clip below).
During their first meal together at the retreat, Simo…for all his dark, strong-minded appearances, was a civilized gentleman. He smiled. Was happy to see her. And even treated the server with the utmost respect and courtesy.
Hajar, however, was rude to the server because she felt they were late with a course. She was mildly critical his behavior and mannerisms. And in the above clip, she’s still talking about wanting to enjoy a “girl’s night out.”
Simo says no to that.
In this clip, Hajar then accuses Simo of having “Trust issues.”
Simo says, “No it’s not trust issues. It’s about respecting the value of the family.”
Hajar says, “If I have an idea, I would want you to not be against it. I want to know if it’s a yes…”
Simo abruptly says, “Yes, with someone else. If I’m getting married, it’s to share everything with MY wife. Everything.”
He goes on to say, “if she’s still focused on going out till 4am without me, what’s the point of getting married?
Ladies…that’s not controlling. Simo’s not trying to possess her. Simo’s making it abundantly clear that Hajar is free to do whatever she wants, but if you want to live that way, it’s not with him.
You have a choice! Do you want to be married? If the answer is yes, then you can’t keep living like you’re single. You ARE no longer free, in the sense that it’s not all about you. You now have to consider the wants, needs, and feelings of your spouse. How would YOU feel if he went out dancing at the clubs until 4 in the morning?
When Simo asked why she was rude to the server, Hajar said, “Because they were late. And I can be rude sometimes. You have to understand that.”
As if someone told her that it’s okay to be rude, and the man is supposed to stay with you and put up with your behavior. I wonder where she got that idea?
Real Relationships Aren’t Games – To the Ladies Who Love Drama
Later that day, when the couples all meet for the first time, the fellas Simo and Chafic get into a huge argument and almost comes to blows. They have to be separated.
To be fair to Hajar, I do think it’s wise for women to stay out of it when two men are going at it. And maybe she did understand what was happening and chose not to condone Simo’s behavior. There’s nothing wrong with that.
But it’s one thing to stay out of it. It’s another to openly go against your own man. Without even hearing Simo’s side, Hajar was already saying things like, “He’s not mature enough for me. He makes mistakes and hurts the people around him.”
More than that…she seemed to enjoy all the drama and conflict. Like, it was all entertaining and fun to her. Don’t believe me? Watch the clip below. It takes place the next day. It’s all over her face. She appears excited, as if she can’t wait to confront Simo and “put him in his place.”
And then, as she leans against the railing, looking forward to all the drama, she’s told by the producers that Simo already left. As in, he left the whole show. Her jaw literally drops! See below.
When me and my wife saw this….we both went “OHH!!!!!”
Couple of points. First off, the reason why I’m highlighting Hajar’s smirk of anticipation, her almost giddy reaction to all the drama and conflict is because this is a huge problem.
Even if all the ladies want to point the finger at Simo for causing problems with Chafic, what does it say about a wife or girlfriend if, instead of being dismayed or saddened, she’s actually looking forward to confronting him?
As if, it’s going to be fun. As if…wait for it…this is all really just a game to Hajar.
Secondly…this was probably the greatest moment in all of Love is Blind, including the American series.
You have to understand…after putting up with this show and seeing how whipped American men are when it comes to being berated and down-trodden by the women, all with the support of fans, female contestants, and even Nick Lachey and his wife…to finally see men like Simo grab their balls and say, “f**k this, I’m out…” It was amazing!
I’m not saying Simo was perfect or had nothing to work on. Simo was an antagonist to Chafic and Dounia, no doubt. But to Hajar, he was intent on seeing if she was wife worthy. THAT’S THE POINT BEING ON THE SHOW!
Seriously, I’ve seen so many times how the ladies will come on to the show and focus so much on the “sisterhood,” or how the audience perceives them, or making friends with the female contestants and prioritizing all of that over securing a husband. It’s the stupidest thing that’s not talked about enough.
In his own words, Simo said, “I had a problem yesterday. She didn’t support me. If a woman is not standing with me…no.”
In her words, Hajar spoke a lot of the American talking points saying, “It shows he’s not ready for responsibility. It’s his lost. I’m stronger than to cry over a guy or feel sad over a guy who I just met.”
Again…that’s not the woman we originally saw in the pods.
Why do I keep harping on that? Because I honestly feel sad for women like her. Years ago, Milo Yiannopoulos described Feminism as a cancer. And while I think that’s a horrible exaggeration, when it comes to marriage and families…I really can see how it’s done so much damage.
There are going to be millions of women who end up single and childless in their Middle Ages and instead of acknowledging that it’s due to the choices they made, these women are still going to blame Men. Which is the opposite of empowerment.
Blaming everyone else for your outcome in life means you had no power, no responsibility, and no choice.
We’re not controlling you. Everyone has insecurities. The Dating Culture is a ish-show right now and it’s because Men and Women around the world have turn their backs on the ways thing have always (traditionally) been done.
So yeah…when I saw Love is Blind Habibi…it put me to shame because I have a competitive attitude when it comes to being a Christian and American…but also, it made glad to see there are men out there who do possess the courage and fortitude to stick to their principles even if it means not getting the girl.
Because recently, a Black Man openly admitted during a ridiculous debate with Amanda Seales where he was asked, “What is the root cause of there being less father’s present?” when it comes to black families.
The Black Man said, “Bad decision making in the part of the fathers.”
He puts the onus on Men and to a large extent I agree with him. If every man refused to engage in the hook-up culture and only had sex with the woman they married, things would be better.
That being said, if women only rewarded and CHOSE the men who made good decisions, things would be better still.
Alright crew…this concludes my series about the Love is Blind Habibi. Tanks for reading, and again…don’t take my word for it, don’t listen to all the blogs and creators calling the men controlling and toxic, see for yourself and make up your own mind.
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